Sunday, May 31, 2020

show the love

When was the last time you told someone that you love them? Perhaps even more important is when did you last SHOW anyone that you love them? All too often we assume folks know we care about them, but saying it and showing it are important. Our lives are not without end and we should not be faced with regret about things unsaid or undone, when someone's time on earth is over. Let's all remind ourselves and our families just how important and precious life is, and let's always show the love.

Saturday, May 30, 2020

Incredible Kind Person

I want to say thanks this morning for an amazing person.  He has been an emergency medical technician, a fitness trainer, and now is beginning a career as a nurse, and he is one of the kindest people you will ever come across.  He never stops inspiring me too.  We should all be so lucky as to have someone like this in our lives!

Friday, May 29, 2020

thanks a lot

Saying thank you isn't something we do as often as we should, in my opinion.  It is quick and easy and doesn't cost anything.  Showing thanks should be as regular as being kind!

Thursday, May 28, 2020

This COVID-19

I believe in science and in good judgement.  I believe in following the informed advice of my medical providers.  This COVID-19 appears to be getting worse, and we all need to be on the same page.  It's new.  We are learning.  One thing we already should have learned though is compassion and kindness.  Let's stop the spread by caring about of friends and neighbors.  Wash you hands often.  Wear a mask.  Keep your distance from others.  Care.

Wednesday, May 27, 2020

Almost done

Well May is almost done, but that's just part of life.  Time marches on!  We need to make every single month count.  Indeed, every single day!

Tuesday, May 26, 2020

Kindness even toward those we dislike

Many people are of the opinion that they must never show any kindness to those with whom they disagree or those they dislike.  Nope.  We can be kind to everyone.  Let them do they negative.  We can strive to take the high road.  Sometimes it's just a matter of common courtesy, but being kind and extending a positive attitude should always be they way we operate.  Who knows?  We just might bring about change in those other people!

Monday, May 25, 2020

This holiday

Here in the United States, today is Memorial Day, a federal holiday honoring and mourning the military personnel who had died while serving in the United States Armed Forces. This year, because of COVID-19, observances may look a little different, but it is still important that we remember.  It is NOT when we honor all who have served - that is Veteran's Day.  Also, despite the picnics and sales that usually pop up, that should not be the emphasis either.  Let us remember the fallen.

Sunday, May 24, 2020

Going to church

In the US, most public worship has been suspended for the past couple of months.  It's amazing to me the clever ways faith communities have stayed together though and I am happy to regularly participate in some online liturgies.  A congregation I was a part of several years ago has very kindly kept me informed about what they are doing and I will be looking in on them in just a few hours.  Going to church looks so different these days!

Saturday, May 23, 2020

Wonderful woman

Last night I spent some time video chatting with a wonderful woman whom I've known for a couple of years.  She's a nurse, a mental health advocate, a champion of suicide awareness, and an incredibly nice person.  What a beautiful experience it was chatting with her too.  She always brightens my day!  It's the simple thing folks.  Kindness is caring.

Friday, May 22, 2020

Holiday weekend

Here we are with a holiday weekend, but most of us will be observing it very differently.  The important thing is to stay safe and be kind!

Thursday, May 21, 2020

Albert Schweitzer said

The great Albert Schweitzer told us "Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful."  Wise words.

Wednesday, May 20, 2020

words from Scott Adams

Think about these words from Scott Adams:  "Remember there’s no such thing as a small act of kindness.  Every act contains a ripple with no logical end."

Tuesday, May 19, 2020

Lincoln said

Wise words from Abraham Lincoln: “The best way to predict the future is to create it.”

Monday, May 18, 2020

Creative kindness

In these days of COVID-19, we have to be a lot more creative in showing kindness to others, or so it would seem.  Actually simple things like a phone call or an email can be done any time.  Let people know you are thinking of them, even if you can't get together face-to-face.

Sunday, May 17, 2020

Another Sunday

This may seem like just another Sunday to you, but today is special.  Of course every day is special.  Seriously.  We make things important.  We decide when to celebrate and when not to.  How about if all of us consider every day to be special and every person to be special and we spend our lives doing marvelous special things.

Saturday, May 16, 2020

Nobody said it would be easy

It's been difficult these past few months and it is likely to get even more difficult.  Nobody said it would be easy.  Kindness is more important now than ever.  Get creative.  What can you do to make a positive difference, even if it's behind your closed door?  Thank about it.

Friday, May 15, 2020

Kind, kind, kind

All I ever talk about here is kind, kind, kind.  Is there anything more beautiful though than being kind to others?

Thursday, May 14, 2020

Early riser

Each morning I get up between 4:30 and 5.  After a quick shower, there is a run through the neighborhood and some additional exercise, before I grab some breakfast and write my two blogs.  I always feel refreshed when I finish all of that and then at 9 is my hour of prayer and meditation.  It's pretty much the same each morning.  Oh and as an early riser, I am very kind to myself and always get to bed pretty early.

Wednesday, May 13, 2020

Fresh start

Don’t be afraid to start all over again. Who knows? You may like your new story better.

Tuesday, May 12, 2020

Another Tuesday

For some folks, the days are pretty much the same, especially if these days you are staying home and social distancing.  That doesn't mean to let things go.  On this Tuesday, do something intentional for yourself and for others, even if it doesn't mean going outside.  Use your imagination.  Show the love!

Monday, May 11, 2020

We can adapt

Not everything stays the same, and as difficult as these past two months have been, I predict that we have many more months to go.  We can adapt though.  We can alter the ways that we do things and adjust to what is necessary to stay safe and healthy.  Human beings are incredible.  With love, respect, and kindness we can get through anything.

Sunday, May 10, 2020

Mothers Day

Oliver Wendell Holmes said “Youth fades; love droops; the leaves of friendship fall; A mother’s secret hope outlives them all.”  Thinking of all the mothers in our lives on the Mothers Day.

Saturday, May 9, 2020

Tough times

A record 20.5 million jobs were lost in April here in the United States, as the unemployment rate jumped to 14.7 percent, which is the highest it has been since the Great Depression.  Oh my!  We really are in the midst of tough times.  Let's all make extra effort to be nice and good to each other.  Brighter days will come, but it will be so much easier to get there if we all exercise kindness.

Friday, May 8, 2020

Even now

As I reflected about the importance of being kind last night, I was thinking about the COVID-19 pandemic and how even now will so much going on, we still need to be kind.  Perhaps I should say especially now.  I have seen a lot of negativity on social media and I understand the frustration, but how much nicer things are when we are civil and patient.  Yes, it is difficult, but we can get through this!  Let's work together and always stay kind.

Thursday, May 7, 2020

Hello

Hello.  It's a short word.  It's only five letters and just two syllables.  Hard to believe it can be such a big deal, huh?  During these days of sheltering in place, a phone call with a simple hello is a VERY big deal.  It can totally brighten someone's day/  Even when things return a bit to the usual way of doing things, that little hello is still a big deal.  Think of those who are always alone.  Think of friends or relatives who are far away.  Say hello!

Wednesday, May 6, 2020

Kindness in giving

Yesterday I registered for a walk-a-thon for a cause very dear to me and I began a fundraiser to collect money for the cause.  Within minutes a generous donor was there to help out.  His giving is another fine example of kindness!

Tuesday, May 5, 2020

Kindness always matters


Even though many of us have been at least six feet apart, many of us have never been closer.  Kindness always matters, even in the midst of a pandemic and social distancing.

Monday, May 4, 2020

Working from home

I'm working from home these days and not coming in to direct physical contact with anyone, but that doesn't mean goodbye to kindness.  We can still be kind via social media, phone, email, and even waving from our windows!  Kindness should never end!

Sunday, May 3, 2020

Kindness while homebound

Most of us love to be out and about and it's been tough staying home, even though we know it's for our own good.  While we are home though it is so important to remember that kindness I am always talking about.  Be kind to everyone in your household.  Remember they probably want to be out too!  Oh and be kind to yourself!  This is especially important if you live alone.  Kindness never should take a day off.

Saturday, May 2, 2020

like breathing out and breathing in

The selflessness we show comes naturally for many of us.  It's like breathing out and breathing in. We don't even have to give it a thought. I'm sure you know folks like that.   I think it is something that can easily be learned too. It just feels good. Whether it's natural or learned, being considerate and generous, makes others feel good too. Oh my!

Friday, May 1, 2020

Be so happy

Be so happy that
when others look at you,
they become happy too!