this year

Were you kind this year?  You still have a few hours left.  Do something especially kind to close out 2021 and then begin the new year tomorrow being even more kind!

care and unite

I began this Thursday with sad news. The US is now averaging more COVID-19 cases per day than at ANY OTHER POINT in the pandemic, according to data updated yesterday from the CDC. A respiratory therapist was in the news for taking his own life, because the strain of the pandemic had gotten so bad. Very sad. We all need to care, and we all need to unite. 

 If you or anyone you know are having thoughts of suicide, 

please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 

1-800-273-8255 (TALK).

presence

Presents are always nice to receive.  (Did you receive many of them yesterday)?  As nice as it is to receive a physical gift, I think I think presence is even more important.  Let people know you care and that you are there for them.  That really is the best Christmas presence!

be happy

Whether you are celebrating Christmas today or looking ahead to the new year, or just relaxing as 2021 comes to its last week, be happy.  Try to be happy always.  Share that happiness too.  Help to make others happy.  Today is an especially good day to call, text, email, or otherwise reach out to others, even if it's just for a moment.  

memories

Sometimes you never know the true value of a moment until it becomes a memory that you wish you could experience again.  Many of you have wonderful memories of things that have happened on December 24th.  Today you can add some fresh memories.  Be sure to including a nice big serving of kindness!

don't forget the others

As we go about our planning and our shopping for holidays and celebrations, it's important that we not just look inward, but also look outward too.  Don't forget the others.  Don't forget those who are sad or lonely or poor or alone.  Don't forget the friends we no longer see or the relatives who live far away.  Don't forget those who have health issues or who have recently lost a loved one.  Kindness means thinking not just of ourselves, but of others.

giving

Giving to your favorite charity is something many people plan and budget for.  Sometimes things come up unexpectedly though.  A lot of organizations really need help right now.  A lot of individuals too.  Do what you can, if you can.

Mom

Thinking today of my mom. Today would have been another birthday for her, just five days before Christmas. I don't think she ever got the attention she deserved. Mom was the kindest person I have ever known, and that memory keeps making me want to be kind and to encourage others as well. So much love! Thanks Mom. I miss you.

I've got your back

It's during the worst times of your life that you'll get to see the true colors of the people who say they care about you. If you say to someone "I've got your back," mean it!

all of us

Not all of us celebrate Christmas.  Not all of us celebrate any number of holidays.  One thing all of us can and should do though is respect each other and be kind to each other.  If someone says, "Happy holidays!" to you, thank them.  Wish them the same. 

Arnel's Foundation

Have you heard of Arnel Pineda Foundation Inc?  Have you even heard of Arnel Pineda?  (Well, I believe APFI operates solely within the Philippines with no outside affiliations, but check them out though).  They do good things.  I made a mention here a few years ago.  Their website is at https://arnelpineda.org/  It's the time of year when folks give gifts, and I know they would appreciate yours!

The Friday night monsters

Yesterday at this time I only knew a little about the horrible tornadoes that struck six states causing death and destruction. The Friday night monsters were worse than I thought. It appears that entire communities have been wiped out. The American Red Cross makes it easy to send a quick $10 donation simply by texting REDCROSS to 90999.  Other donations can be made by going to redcross.org  Kentucky was by far the hardest hit state and a special fund has been setup to help there.  Go to https://secure.kentucky.gov/formservices/Finance/WKYRelief to donate.

Kindness in time of disaster

Waking up to some horrible news from the midsection of our country. More than thirty tornadoes have been reported to the National Weather Service across Kentucky, Tennessee, Arkansas, Illinois, Missouri, and Mississippi.  Property damage is incredible.  Injuries and fatalities are not yet known, but there may well be over 100 dead.  These people need help - all kinds of help.  Be generous and be kind.  Check with your local news sources for ways you can give.

ALWAYS

 You never know what someone is going through.  Be kind to everyone.  ALWAYS!

there was a time

Have things changed?  It seems that way to me.  There was a time when people cared about each other, but I see less and less of that.  There is nothing humorous about the tornadoes that recently struck the middle of our country.  Anyone use that as fodder for comedy is just plain mean.  Oh, and the folks who refuse to get vaccinated or wear a mask, yet still want to be physically close to others?  That to me is very uncaring.  Let's care once again.  Let's be kind.

Button up your overcoat

As the cold comes to so many of us, kindness is all the more important.  I love the collection drives at this time of year for blankets and coats.  When the winder winds blow, so many cannot button up their overcoat because they don't have one.  Giving doesn't just help other folks get warm.  It leaves the giver with a warm feeling too!

Happy Monday!

"Monday, Monday

  So good to me
 Monday mornin'
 It was all I hoped it would be"

Those words from John Philips were running around in my head as I woke up!  I hope this Monday is all we hope it will be.  Be sure to be kind!

World AIDS Day

On this 33rd World AIDS Day, I remember all those who died, all who are living with HIV, all the men and women working for a cure, and I remember my friends. Randy Shilts, who died before I got to know him very well, wrote the book And The Band Played On, about the early days of AIDS.  Randy also once said “What society judged was not the severity of the disease but the social acceptability of the individuals affected with it.”

giving

Robert Louis Stevenson said "You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving."  

Oh and it's a perfect time to mention that today is GIVING TUESDAY.  Be as generous as you are able.

the seasons

The pumpkins and the fall leaves and the changing colors at this time of year is fun for me.  The cold and snow are just ahead.  That may be fun for you.  Summer?  Spring?  Do you have a favorite season?  How about the season of giving?  The season of kindness (which I believe to be all year) is really my favorite time!

What's in it for me?

At some time, you may have heard someone ask, "What's in it for me?"  Well in terms of being kind, there actually is something in it for you, although I don't think that's why we should be kind people.  Kind people attract kindness though, so the more kind you are, the more like it is that folks will be kind to you in return.  Another good thing is the feeling you get.  It's nice to do something for somebody else and not expect anything in return.  It makes you feel good.

your thoughts

How about you? I've often listed random acts of kindness here, but what about you? Please always feel free to add ideas in the comments section below or to just tell us a story about kindness. There are so many wonderful heartwarming stories out there, and sharing is caring!

groan

No matter how kind you are,
        German children are kinder!

thankfulness and kindness

I am always thankful for the kind people and the kind moments in my life.  Even in difficult times, there is always something to be thankful for and there is never a moment for us not to be kind.  To me, kindness and thankfulness seem to go hand in hand.  I'm thankful too for all who read this daily blog and hope that someone has been influenced along the way.

sharing is caring

Not everyone is able to enjoy a big holiday feast.  Remember, sharing is caring.  If you can afford it, consider preparing a double batch of everything, and then go delivery that extra food where it will be most appreciated.

Patriotism

Grateful for all who have served in our military, I was thinking of what it means to be a patriot, and these words from Theodore Roosevelt helped answer my question.  "Patriotism means to stand by the country. It does not mean to stand by the president or any other public official, save exactly to the degree in which he himself stands by the country. It is patriotic to support him insofar as he efficiently serves the country. It is unpatriotic not to oppose him to the exact extent that by inefficiency or otherwise he fails in his duty to stand by the country."

one of those days

Today seems to be one of those days.  I slept late (which I never day) and when I finally dragged myself out of bed, I felt all kinds of yucky.  Slow down!  There's a holiday this Thursday and another one a few Thursdays later.  Just because today didn't begin great, doesn't mean it has to be a bad day!  I'm going to be very kind to myself, and of course I'll be kind to others!

We don't take days off

It's Sunday, so no work for many and no school, and therefore no need to be kind, right? WRONG! I'm not serious.  We don't take a day off from caring about others. Being good and kind is an everyday occurrence we should practice every single day!

birthday wishes

Happy birthday to my sister today, who doesn't read this, but who otherwise is the greatest sister in the world.  Kind too.  She could easily be the poster-person for kindness!

only treats

If you will be going out trick-or-treating this weekend, may there only be treats for you and if folks should come to your door, be kind.

over five years!

Wow!  I just realized I have been writing this for over five years!  I'm amazed.  (It's been thirteen years that I have been writing another blog).  I thank you for reading my words here.  You are very kind.  I hope this has helped me become a bit more kind.

Make me a list

Every now and then I have given a list in this space of some random acts of kindness.  For folks who are trying to become more kind and to do nice things, I think that can be a good starting point (although it isn't about just being kind sometimes).  Can you think of some random kind acts though?  I'd love to see ideas from someone else.  Let's think about it.

someone said

Yesterday someone said to me "Some things are so unexpected that no one is prepared for them." My response to them was "huh?"  (Was I kind)?

technology

Technology has given us many advantages, but sometimes I think we have gotten too reliant on it.  Yesterday my phone and internet went out.  Yes, I know you can connect with your cell phone, but I'm not very good at it.  I don't even like texting.  (Hard to believe, huh)?  Anyway, my phone and internet came back on again, only to go out last night.  This morning, when I wanted to post here, I couldn't (at least not the usual way).  It's back again and so here am I with apologies for being tardy.  Please be kind.

No money involved

Here are examples of some random acts of kindness. Tell your parents or your children why you love them. Make a point of finding the name of a supermarket or drugstore employee and then praise him or her through that company’s corporate office. As you go about your day, pick up trash. When drivers try to merge into your lane, let them in with a wave and a smile. Just a few ideas.  There are many more of course.  One cool thing is none of these involve money.  You can be kind without spending a dime!

your thoughts

For five years I have been writing encouraging words here each morning, urging us all to be more kind.  I have no idea if I have been at all successful.  I think it has made me more aware, and hopefully more kind as well.  I'd really appreciate your thoughts though.  Why are you reading this?  Have you ever told others about this blog?  Do you have some suggestions you would share with us?  How can we all be more kind?

Kindness during pandemic

These past two years with the COVID-19 pandemic have not been fun.  We have dealt with sickness and death, and we have seen people lost their jobs and their homes.  I think right now it is more important than ever to show our concern for others.  Reach out.  Be a friend.  Let people know that you care.  We will get through this and kindness from all of us will help!

1843

The little counter on the page that keep track of these things, says that today is the 1843rd post to this blog!  Thank you for sticking with me these past five years.  Thanks too for your never-ending kindness.  Let's keep spreading it!

Kind Arnel

The wonderful music that Arnel Pineda shares at all of his performances is certainly an act of beauty, but I am told that he is also a very kind man who enjoys bringing joy to others.  He brings a LOT of joy!

go sit with a stranger

Reaching out is important all the time. Today though a special effort would be in order because this is National Sit With a Stranger Day. We can never have too many friends. The most simple connection just might turn into a wonderful life-long relationship. I'm thinking of all the lonely people too. For them, making a new connection is certainly a kind thing to do. Reach out and touch someone!  Go sit with a stranger.

For the future

The earth has been here a long time and it will be around for a long time to come, BUT will it be able to sustain life? Will plants and flowers grow and fish swim in the water and birds fly through the air? Will cows and chickens, dogs and cats, all manner of life, including humans, still roam the planet?  I've been thinking a lot about this.  Climate change is real folks.  Look at the soaring temperatures.  Look at the sea life being cooked in the water.   Be kind to future generations.  We need to act.  

donuts

Today is National Cream-Filled Donut Day and my mouth is already watering. Maybe a good time to bring some donuts to work or to school or maybe just get some to share with neighbors and friends. I love Boston cream! Oh and I love chocolate cream too. Oh and then there's custard or lemon cream or nutella or maple cream. Wow! Cream-filled donuts come in so many varieties, but I suppose you could share a good old jelly donut too!

Does time heal?

Yesterday, another 9/11 day of remembrances.  I find every year for the day to be a very emotional one.  Does time heal?  Perhaps.  What helps a great deal is kindness and respect.  Treat everyone in a positive manner.  Understand that we all process difficult moments in our own way and that there is no wrong way to grieve - it's a very individual thing.  We get our strength by showing love and concern for others.

remembering

Twenty years ago the day began like most others, and then terror struck.  Let us always remember the events of that day and do all we can so see that atrocities like that never happen again.  Let us work for peace and harmony.  Let us also remember the souls we lost that day.

Teddy Bears

National Teddy Bear Day honors the history of one of our favorite toys. My mom used to collect teddy bears, and many of hers are now with me. In 1902, President Teddy Roosevelt refused to shoot a bear cub while hunting in Mississippi. The incident made national news. Clifford Berryman published a cartoon of the event in the Washington Post and the caricature became an instant classic. That's how it began, now let's keep it going!

holiday kindness

Yes, today is a holiday.  It's also another be kind to others day.  Being kind takes no holiday, no vacation.  Being kind is a way of life that we practice every single day.

September is

September is National Blood Cancer Awareness Month, Better Breakfast Month, Self Improvement Month, National Suicide Awareness Month, Gynecologic Cancer Awareness Month, Hispanic Heritage Month, Little League Month, National Childhood Obesity Awareness Month, Baby Safety Month, Classical Music Month, National Childhood Cancer Awareness Month, and National Courtesy Month.  Learn.  Be aware.  Be kind.

The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline provides

24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress,

prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones.

1-800-273-8255

Courtesy Month

It’s National Courtesy Month! No, I'm not making this up. While I am always urging kindness, here we have a whole month that is especially urging that. So, show lots of courtesy all through September (and beyond)!

welcome September

Welcome September, a brand new month and more opportunities to show kindness.  Enjoy this ninth month of the year, and be kind!

No place for hate

The hate and violence in various places these past few days is quite discouraging.  I don't even understand the concept.  Love and kindness is so much more positive.  There is always room for more positive attitudes, and as far as I am concerned, there really is no place for hate.

Continuing to build the list

Every now and then, I have listed here some random acts of kindness.  Here are more:  Give toys to the children at a shelter. Volunteer to fix up an elderly couple’s home. Give a bag of groceries to a homeless person. Call an estranged family member. Leave a treat or handmade note of thanks for a delivery person or mail carrier. Mow a neighbor’s grass or sweep a neighbor’s walk.

Happy birthday to me!

Is it right and a good and joyful thing that I should wish myself a happy birthday? Of course! Self-kindness is always a good thing. Many thanks to all the kind people out there who have already sent me warm wishes too!

said before

Way back when I was first on the radio, I used to close each day saying "It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice." That was likely something I had read, but I liked it, and still do. Another one that most likely was said before: "Only I can change my life. Nobody can do it for me." That too wasn't an original thought by me (no idea who said it first), but I really like it.

Senior Citizens

Today is Senior Citizens Day and while kindness toward everyone is something we all should always be showing, today let's make a special effort to be kind to senior citizens.  Perhaps a visit to a local nursing home or reaching out to grandparents or other older relatives would be a good way to spend the day.

birthday wishes

Just a couple of weeks before my birthday and one thing that would make me very happy is more kindness. I'm serious. Such a lovely present it would be if I saw more folks caring about each other. When you are a kid your birthday wishes probably include various presents and a party and and celebrations, but that really isn't all that important to me. I'd much prefer you donated to a charity dear to me or spent some time volunteering.  Being nice to each other is such a wonderful gift!

Happiness Happens

We have a day to encourage happiness! Yup. I'm not making this up. Today is National Happiness Happens Day, so smile and be happy. Yes, it's true that there is still a lot to worry about, but there are always reasons to rejoice and recognize those wonderful moments of delight, joy, pleasure, and glee. Be kind, as always, and especially be kind to yourself. Enjoy the happy moments and make more of them happen!

I love August

I love August.  Last year and this are different for sure, but the nice weather is still here during this month and I know tons of people with birthdays and anniversaries.  One of them was yesterday.  Two are on the same day as mine later in the month.  I could easily celebrate all month long.  So many bonus reasons for being kind.

friendship

I was told that the average American has sixteen friends, three of which are extremely close. How about you? Today is National Friendship Day and I'm reminded also that the best way to have friends is to be a friend. Reach out with kindness, and be someone's friend.

End of the month kindness

July comes to a close today.  Was it a kind month for you?  Were you a kind person this month?  I have an idea.  Let's go out an be especially kind today as this month ends.  Let us all keep happy and upbeat and smile and share our joy.  Let's spread the kindness all over the place!

your kindness toward me

Oh my! The past few weeks have not been my best, but I am so very grateful for your kindness toward me. Hopefully my health will improve. (I'm going to be wearing a heart monitor for several weeks just to be sure). It has been amazing though how many people have reached out with kind words of encouragement and support. I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Birthdays

Birthdays can be a lot of fun.  When I glanced at the calendar a moment ago I realized that mine is just a month away.  Oh that means my friends Desmond, Vincent, and Cecilia will be celebrating their birthdays today.  When were you born?  Happy birthday to all when your special day comes!

Effects of COVID-19 pandemic

COVID-19 has affected day to day life for the past year and a half and it is still with us. In the beginning, we didn't really know what to do. Even now we don't have all the answers, but we do have a vaccine and we know that masking helps. The impacts of COVID-19 in daily life are extensive and have far reaching consequences, but we need to all do our part. Be kind to yourself and to others. Follow the protocols. Science is real. COVID-19 is real. Get vaccinated. Wear a mask. Make a difference.

Happy Friday!

Hey everybody!  Happy Friday!  How are you doing?  I hope you are all feeling well and enjoying yourselves.  (Yes, you can still enjoy yourself even in a pandemic).  Go out and make it a great day.  Make it great for someone else too!

kind ideas

Every now and then I've listed things we can all do to show kindness toward others. Here are some more: Let the person behind you in the grocery store go ahead of you in line. Invite someone new for dinner, either in your home or in a restaurant. Give toys to the children at a shelter. Say nice things randomly to friends (or even strangers) on social media. Buy some bottles of water and randomly hand them out to strangers on the street.  Volunteer at a senior center or a hospital.  What else?  Help us come up with some other ideas!

Don't let it disappear!

Just when you began to think that nobody is the world is kind anymore, along comes someone to prove you wrong, and boy is that great.  I actually don't ever think that kindness is ALL gone, but there are times when it seems to be disappearing.  Don't let it disappear!

This week ahead

This week ahead I'm hoping will be a good one.  We can't control everything in our lives of course, but we can always be kind.

beautiful day!

Yesterday was an absolutely day!  I love looking all around at the wonders of nature.  It's cool when you notice other people enjoying it too.  Hopefully today is going to be just as beautiful.

ideas

As we head in to this weekend, can you think of some kindness ideas?  How about donating blood?  (That's always a very kind thing to do).  Give coffee to people on their way to work in the morning. Tell your parents/children why you love them. Leave a treat or handmade note of thanks for a delivery person or mail carrier.

National Give Something Away Day

Today is National Give Something Away Day. Really. I think this is a marvelous idea too! Most of us have the benefit of having more than we need to live our lives. National Give Something Away Day offers a chance to share some of our bounties.  What a kind thing to do too!

YOUR kindness

I could easily go on and out speaking here of being kind, 

but I would also love to hear about your kindness.  

Seriously.  

Using the comments section below, tell us about a kind 

thing you regularly do or you are trying to do, or maybe 

some suggestions for all of us to do!

Whole heart

"Life is going to give you just what you put into it. Put your whole heart in everything you do."

-words of Vivian Baxter

Reaching for the stars

As a fellow broadcaster, the great Casey Kasem was always an inspiration to me. It wasn't just his talent though that inspired, it was the many profound things he said, especially his signature saying "Keep your feet on the ground and keep reaching for the stars." It's always good advice to keep reaching for the stars!

Cheer Up The Lonely

Today is National Cheer Up The Lonely Day.  Yup there is actually a day set aside for that!  (Of course I think it would be wonderful to do every single day).  There are lots of ways to do this.  Maybe we could start by calling some folks who live alone, just to say hello.

Kind in the heat

When it's really hot outside, it can be easier to get frustrated and even lose your temper, but a kind smile can help.  It's already gotten hot in my neck-of-the-woods, and it's more important than ever to be kind to each other.  Pop a few bottles of water in the freezer, and bring them with you as you go about your day.  Most folks will be delighted it you give them one of these bottles, with the water still nice and cold!  Oh my!

I intend

It is a Friday, the ninth day of July 2021, and today I intend to be kind. I intend to be kind every single day. Sometimes when something bad happens or someone is yelling at me, I may need to step away for a moment or take a deep breathe. Sometimes I might even want to scream. At no point though do I ever want to repay someone else with anything other than kindness and I intend to be true to this attitude always.

Happy Thursday!

Another glorious day!  Where I am the sun is already streaming through the windows, after a nice bit of overnight rain.  Happy Thursday everyone!  I know this is going to be a great day.  Be kind to each other!

Quoting Jefferson

Remembering today those very important words of Thomas Jefferson: "We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal; that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights; that among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness."  Please note that we are not guaranteed to be happy, but only to pursue it.  Kindness will help us on the way.

hot dogs, hamburgers, and potato salad

Growing up I remember those wonderful summertime picnics with hot dogs, hamburgers, and potato salad and maybe some icecream or watermelon.  Those are what I might call kind foods.  (Pizza could go on that list, but it isn't usually eaten at picnics).  Do you have any kind summertime memories from your youth?

This weekend

This weekend is going to be incredible.  You believe me, right?  Think positive.  Let us all set out to be kinder than ever this weekend.  Yeah, that's the ticket!

You're adopted

Former NFL player and activist Colin Kaepernick says "My parents told me from the time I can remember that, 'Yeah, you're adopted. But this is your family.' I can remember my mom, she tells me this story: when I was little, I was looking at her, and I was like, 'Why isn't my skin the same color as yours?' 'Oh, you're adopted, but I wish I had pretty brown skin like you,' said Mom." Wow!  Thanks for sharing this with us Colin.  

What a month!

June ends today.  What a month this has been too.  Oh my!  I have been busy.  I hope that you have been busy too.  Even more, I hope that you have shared kindness and brought some good to our world.  Tomorrow starts a brand new month and more opportunities.  Be safe.  Be well.  Be kind.

Inspiration

We all find inspiration from somewhere - our parents, God, perhaps a teacher or close friend. I am inspired by so many people, and some of that inspiration is what got me talking so much about kindness. I have a wonderful friend Toan who inspires me in every single thing he does. He has such a zest for life and enjoying it to the fullest. There's a celebrity who greatly inspire me too. Her name is Ellen and the kind and generous things she does are simply amazing. I'm so lucky to be inspired by so many, and at the top of the list is my late mother. Wow! What a great lady!

kindest day of the year

What is the kindest day of the year? Many folks might say Christmas or Thanksgiving or some other holiday.  How about today? Why can't today be the kindest.  We can make this happen. Start spreading that kindness!  I say this all the time, but it really is true.

Fathers

Father’s Day began in 1910, two years after the first official celebration of Mother’s Day in the United States. It is the third Sunday in June each year (today). Of course we should always honor our parents, but today, be especially kind to your father.

Juneteenth words

Remembering on this Juneteenth, these words from Dr Martin Luther King Jr: "If the cruelties of slavery could not stop us, the opposition we now face will surely fail. Because the goal of America is freedom, abused and scorned tho’ we may be, our destiny is tied up with America’s destiny."

Simple message

 It's a pretty simple message here every day:  be kind.  

How was your weekend?

Happy Monday everyone!  How was your weekend?  I hope you had a enjoyable time and I hope everyone now has a great week ahead.  Wherever you go and whatever you do, remember to be kind!

Loving Day

Loving Day might not be exactly what you think. Yes, it revolves around affection and relationships, but its history is more deeply rooted hate and discrimination. It involves an interracial couple, Mildred and Richard Loving, who were married in Washington in 1958. In Virginia though, where they made their home, it was "unlawful for any white person in the state to marry any save a white person." The landmark Supreme Court case Loving v. Virginia in 1967 ruled that state bans on interracial marriage were unconstitutional under the 14th Amendment. Something to indeed celebrate on this Saturday!

First time visitor

If you are a first time visitor, I do hope you will come back.  This daily blog is about kindness and how we can be kind to each other.  I'm not an expert by any means.  I have no special training that would lead me in this direction.  I'm just someone who wants to share the joys of love and kindness and I invite you not only to read the words here, but to share yours as well, by commenting in the space below.

Besties

Celebrating National Best Friends Day on this Tuesday.  Do you have a bestie?  Do something extra nice for them today.  Some folks might not be so fortunate to have a best friend.  Reach out to them today too!

Cancer Survivors

Today is National Cancer Survivor’s Day. Be especially kind to those battling various cancers and those who care for them. Many of the most commonly diagnosed cancers have ten-year survival of 50% or more, which is so much better than years ago. We must continue the fight though and wipe out all cancers. Cancer took both my grandmother and mother. I know many though who have beaten their cancers, and today I am thinking of them.

Corgi Day

Today International Corgi Day, which celebrates both corgi breeds and corgi-mixes and brings people together through their love of long dogs with short legs to give to dogs in need. Be kind to the corgis and all animals. Oh and be kind to each other too of course!

From the mouth of Billy Porter

During this Pride Month, I'm thinking of these inspiring words from Billy Porter: "Just by the nature of making the choice to be true to who I am, I'm political. Sometimes that's all you need to do: Show up and be black, gay and Christian in America and actually say it out loud. And refuse to let anything or anybody take that away from you."

Equality for everyone

June is LGBTQ Pride Month. You might be thinking things have improved so much over the years that there is no longer any discrimination against those who identify as lesbian gay bisexual transgender queer or questioning. Wrong. There are more legal protections in some places, but at the same time there are new laws that discriminate and target the LGBTQ community. Equality should be a reality for everyone. Nobody should have to live in a closet. Nobody should have to hide from anyone. And nobody should be discriminated against because of who they are.

change for the better

Waking up to news of yet another shooting and several stories of hate.  Oh my!  Yes kindness is important, but we need a whole lot more.  We need to make some big changes.  The hate has to go.  We need to care about each other.  I know we can do it.  I truly believe we can change for the better.

1616

There is a counter that tells me how many entries I have here for this blog.  Usually I don't take notice, but yesterday it somehow caught my eye.  1616 it said.  Oh my!  With 1,616 posts, I must have said everything you could possibly say about kindness.   WRONG!  There is always more.  I can be more kind.  We can be more kind.  The world can be more kind.

weekend thoughts

As this week comes to a close, how are things going for you?  Have you been kind this week?  Have others been kind to you?  Think for a moment of the kindest moment in this week just ending.  How did it make you feel?  Wouldn't it be great to experience that all the time?

where everyone feels included

Let's eliminate all forms of discrimination. On this International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia, may we renew our commitment to inclusion and advocate diversity, integrity and equality where everyone feels included, respected and valued.  Let us be kind to each other and welcome all of our sisters and brothers.

Trailblazers

Yesterday I learned of the passing of Fred L. Townson, a community activist in San Francisco, and another activist in that city, Felicia Elizondo is in her last hours.  To say that I am sad would be an understatement, but I am also happy - happy to have known them, and happy for all the wonderful things they have done.  They were trailblazers.  They were also very kind.  Saying goodbye is never easy, but I am so glad they came my way.

Mother's Day thought

On this Mother's Day, here is something that actress Sophia Loren once said: “When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child.”

Be healthy

Kindness can relate directly to your overall health.  A healthy lifestyle is not just about what we eat.  It is also what we consume emotionally, mentally and spiritually.  Have a healthy weekend everyone!

The May Pole

I remember back when I was little (perhaps a kinder and gentler time) when we danced around a Maypole on the first day of May. Poet Jonathan Swift describes a Maypole this way:

Deprived of root, and branch, and rind,

Yet flowers I bear of every kind:

And such is my prolific power,

They bloom in less than half an hour;

foodstuff

There are a lot of canned food drives at this time of year, so get involved in one.  Donate food or help collect!  If your community has a food bank or a meal program for low income people, volunteers are always appreciated.  Some of us are blessed with food while others go hungry.  Nobody should have to go hungry.  One of the kindest things a person can do is simply sharing their food.

Guide dogs

Today is International Guide Dog Day, a great time to take a moment and thank the dogs who are such lifesavers to those who need their service and show support the many wonderful guide dog and service dog organizations who train and place these guide animals.  They truly make a difference.

what's the message

Hey everybody!  What's the message?  You should know by now.  It's really pretty simple.  Be kind, now and always.

Tell me a story

Dozens of times I've said that I would love to hear from you, and it's true.  I'll be you have some amazing stories.  Share some.  Tell us you kindest memories.  Come on.  Tell me a story

Yesterday

Yesterday we saw accountability for a crime.  We don't often see that.  In fact, in this regard, we seldom see that.  Yesterday we saw many breathe a sigh of relief.  We saw a glimmer of hope for a better future where we just might finally get rid of some of the hatred and prejudice.  Yesterday afternoon I cried, but I was happy.  Somebody finally gets it!  Sometimes you feel like you are shouting to the walls and nobody seems to care.  Yesterday was different though.  There is so much more that needs to be done, but yesterday was a beginning.

4/20 is special

4/20 is special to me

no, it's not THAT!

it was my nana's birthday

I will always remember

such a sweet kind lady she was!

weekend report

How was your weekend?  Was it filled with kindness?  Tell us about it.  Your weekend report might be just the thing we need to get things rolling on this Monday.

Remembering Philip

He played a supporting role with grace.  Their marriage lasted for 73 years.  Today, Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh will be laid to rest.  Whether or not you support the monarchy and whether or not you like the British Royal Family, we all should respect his long life, his abiding love, and the many who now miss him.  Amazing doesn't even begin to say it.  May he rest in peace.

Message for April 16th

Message for April 16th:  Be kind.  (of course that is also the message all this weekend and every single day)!

miracles

I don't know a lot about the kindness of Albert Einstein, but I do know of his wisdom. This is one of the most inspiring things he said: "There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

Bright light

Even when worries are many and things seem dark, there can still be a bright light of hope!  Be that bright light!

Sooner or later

Yesterday I learned that one of the sweetest, dearest people I have ever known passed away last week.  She had advancing dementia, and I believe there were some other health issues, so it shouldn't have come as a shock, but it did bring sadness.  She was so very kind too.  I could easily model this blog after her.  Our world is so much better off because this dear woman came our way.

In troubled times

Racial tensions, mass shootings, the pandemic, a slowed-down economy - so many things in the news that give us fear.  In troubled times it is even more important to be kind to one another.  Let's reach out and show love to others - even those strangers we have never even met.

Don't be a fool

Today is All Fools' Day or April Fools, and while a good laugh is always fun, remember it shouldn't be at someone else's expense.  Some things should never be joked about like coming out, murder or suicide. or a life-threatening illness, for example.  In the midst f this pandemic, that is certainly another off limits subject.  Have fun today, but don't be a fool.

keep on

Some days may be more difficult than others.  This pandemic certainly isn't making it easy for any of us.  We need to keep on going.  We need to continue being kind.  Kindness really does help.

For Mom

Yesterday a lovely lady who lives in the town where my mom is buried, stopped by Mom's final resting place. She cleaned the marker, added a small pot of miniature daffodils and a colorful little stuffed bear (Mom used to collect teddy bears), and took pictures to send me. (I live far away). It was only three months before Mom died that this very kind lady met her. It fills my heart with joy knowing such wonderful people exist.

Size doesn't matter

Some folks think size matters.  It doesn't.  It doesn't have to be big.  It need not cost you any money too.  Some of the kindest things we can do are simply being there for someone else and showing that you care.

Again!

Another mass shooting.  More lives lost.  This has to end.  Violence and hate should not be in our lives.  We need to see the opposite.  We need to see mass kindness.  We need to see people coming together for good and positive reasons.  We need love.

I agree with Dr King

I agree with Dr Martin Luther King, Jr who said "I have decided to stick with love.  Hate is too great a burden to bear."  

wise words

"Fighting ignorance with ignorance will get us nowhere.  Sharing our own pain by painting another group of people with stereotypes is NOT the way." -Jeremy Lin

Stand Against Hate

Every morning I wake to more news of anti-Asian hate.  Someone said they were tired of my always talking about racism.  Well imagine how tired some people are of EXPERIENCING it.  It's disgusting.  We can end it, but it often seems like nobody cares.  I'm urging you to not only be kind to others, but to help put an end to all this bigotry.  Lets all take a stand against hate.

Do you believe in magic?

 If magic really does exist, I am convinced we know it better by a different name:  kindness.

Have any kind words?

Happy Monday!  Midway through our third month of the year, I am overflowing with kind thoughts, but was wondering this morning about other folks.  Do you have any kind words that you would like to share?  Kindly add them in the comments section below, so that others may benefit!  Thanks for your kindness.

love with no strings

We all need to love more freely.  Love should come with no strings attached.  Don’t say "I love you" expecting to hear it back. Say it to make sure they know!

A smile from Christie

Model Christie Brinkley knows a thing or two about smiling, so when you said "Share your smile with the world. It's a symbol of friendship and peace," you know that she knows that to be true!

Kindness always

It's simple.  It really is.  No matter what, no matter when - kindness always.  We need to get more and more people on board with this.  Think of how much better the world will be!

March acts of kindness

Here are a few random kindness suggestions for this month:   As you go about your day, pick up trash.  Remember the bereaved with phone calls, cards, plants or flowers, and food. Send a gift anonymously to a friend. Bring flowers to work and share them with coworkers. Share your smile generously. Donate to a charity if you can afford it. Say only positive things on social media today.  Clean graffiti from neighborhood walls and buildings. Call an estranged family member.

Inspire people

Inspire people.  Make the day happen when someone says "Because of you I didn't give up"  Is there someone who has been an inspiration to you?  Be that person for others.

Kinder than yesterday

Am I a kinder person than I was yesterday?  Do I show more warmth and affection toward others? Am I unselfish?  Is there love and consideration in my behavior?  How thoughtful am I?  None of us is perfect of course, but I try each day to be kind toward everyone - not always the easiest of tasks!

Just another day

Today is the favorite day of the week for many people. Why? It's just another day, right? Nope.  Some folks live in the moment and make every single day special.  They choose to be happy and to share that happiness.  Yes, there can be difficult moments.  We have had a LOT of them this year, but don't think of today as just another day.  Think of it as another opportunity to share kindness with others and to be kind to yourself!  

Last night

Last night I had one of those lovely encounters where someone showed that he cared.   I really can't go into details out of respect for privacy, but I love to witness such kindness.  It can reinforce your faith in humanity.  This wonderful singer/songwriter/musician can easily add one more description:  caring person.

LOVE

 there 

   is

nothing

 better

  than

LOVE

Being a friend

Being a friend to someone else is just about the kindest thing a person can do.  (Cue Carole King's wonderful song You've Got a Friend right now).  Think for a moment about how your own friends make you feel.  Think about the lyrics of this song too.  Next, go and be the best darn friend you can possibly be.

March forth!

I said it again. When this day rolls around each year I always think of Mom saying this day is a command (March forth). Of course spelling doesn't count. Another thing I really like about this date is how it reminds me of Mom. Is there anything that you do or say that will make future generations think of you? Hopefully you kindness will always be one of those things.

Mark Twain said it

Sometimes I have shared quotes here and one of my favorites comes from Mark Twain. He said "Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see." 

Love what you do

The late Steve Jobs inspired me by his work and the way he lived, and also with this great advice he gave us: "Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it."

March

It's a new month: March! I could also write It's a new month, march! The third month of the year is when we really get our marching orders. Get out there. Do it! Spread the word about being kind, and even more important, do it! Be kind. This isn't just an occasional thing. This is an every day and always thing. Spread kindness throughout your life.

Last chance

Today is your last chance to show kindness in February this year.  Oh that's not a bad thing.  March is coming right up and we can be kind every single day.  There is never a time when being kind is not appropriate.  There is really never a last chance, because we can be kind again over and over.

We must do

The actor and martial artist Bruce Lee, was also a poet and philosopher.  One of the most profound things Lee is known to have said is "Knowing is not enough; We must apply. Willing is not enough; We must do."

checking in

How are you doing?  How about your family, your friends, you neighbors?  We probably don't actually know each other, but it is still kind to check in from time to time.  I hope things are going well for you this February and that even better days are just ahead!

Kinds of Kind

I can kinda think of many kinds of kind - can you?  Haha!  Yes, I know, kindness is a way of life - a showing of care and concern for others, and yes, there are many "kinds" or ways to do this.  In fact, I think the ways are never-ending!

Are you a kind person?

I have a question for you.  Are you a kind person?  I mean really.  Would other people describe you that way?  If so, that's wonderful!  Keep it up!  We should all strive to be kind people.  

Lift up your thoughts

Days can be long when we spend our time moping about aimlessly, thinking only negative thoughts, but when we lift up our thoughts, and work toward a happy a productive day, the world suddenly gets brighter!

From the mind of John Ruskin

Prominent social thinker, art critic, writer, and philanthropist John Ruskin once said "Kind hearts are the garden, kind thoughts are the roots, kind words are the blossoms, kind deeds are the fruit."  It really paints a lovely picture.

A long, long time ago

A long, long time ago on the radio, I used to close by saying "It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice." I've probably told you this story before, but a listener called in and thanked me for saying that. She said it was her daily reminder to be nice to others. I'll never forget that.  It continues to be a reminder for me too.

Don't change

Remember that being kind also means being kind to YOU.  Don't change yourself for other people. Let them accept you for who you are, not who they want you to be.

Less judgmental

Oh how I want to be kinder.  I also want to be less judgmental. I know I sometimes have an excessively critical point of view, and that certainly isn't very kind.

Words from Saint John Chrysostom

"No act of virtue can be great if it is not followed by advantage for others. So, no matter how much time you spend fasting, no matter how much you sleep on a hard floor and eat ashes and sigh continually, if you do no good to others, you do nothing great." -John Chrysostom

ashes

"Ash Wednesday, with its visible sign of dust and ashes on our foreheads, is a forcible reminder of our own frailty and mortality and sinfulness. We don’t like to remember those parts of ourselves, but on this day, it is literally rubbed onto us."  -Paul J. Willis

Alleluia

Alleluia (or hallelujah) goes on vacation every year about this time.  During the days of Lent, it isn't said, as the joy of Easter is anticipated.  People give up more than just a word too.  Folks abstain from meat or pastries or candy or any number of foods or drinks.  I'm not here to condemn that or say it is wrong, but what if we added things during Lent?  How about if we were more intentional about being kind?  That is my goal - to do at least one more kind act every day.

February

Despite all the problems in our world these days, February is being very kind to us with a whole string of commemorations.  Last Friday was Lunar New Year (with many observing the eve on Thursday as well).  Yesterday brought is Valentine's Day.  Today in the US is Presidents Day (although some states use a different name).  Tomorrow we have Fat (or Shrove) Tuesday leading into Ash Wednesday.  Oh my.  Let every one of them be kindness days!

testify to love

Songwriters Paul Field, Henk Pool, Robert Riekerk, and Ralph Van Mennen Testify to Love, which is what many of us will be doing this Valentine's Day weekend. I'm thinking of the wonderful lyrics of that song: "For as long as I shall live I will testify to love. I'll be a witness in the silence Says the words are not enough. With every breath I take I will give thanks to God above. For as long as I shall live I will testify to love."  Let's not save it all for one day a year though.  We can testify every single day!

The message of this blog

The message of this blog is easy to understand.  The message of this blog is a simple one.  The message of this blog is for us all to be kind!  Happy Saturday everyone!

Happy New Year!

Chinese New Year or the Lunar New Year, is a big deal in many parts of the world. The biggest part of the celebration is annual reunion dinner, which would have happened last night but because of COVID-19 was hopefully not observed as widely this year.  This has always been a favorite day of mine (actually the celebration traditionally last a lot longer).  This is the Year of the Ox, and I hope it is a happy and prosperous one for all of you!

profile words

Sometimes people's social media profiles really grab me.  Yesterday I saw one that read "Love is the answer. Spread the light. Kindness is the new cool."  I like that!  That's another great reason for being kind - it's the new cool!

A few random acts

Give your full attention to someone in need and simply listen. Sponsor people in fundraising walk-a-thons Send a gift anonymously to a friend. Tell your parents/children why you love them.  Bring coworkers a special treat. When drivers try to merge into your lane, let them in with a wave and a smile. Pay a compliment at least once a day. Make telephone calls in support of equality urging others to put aside hate. Give public testimony about an important civic matter. Even in the midst of a worldwide pandemic, there are still so many random acts of kindness!

Maya Angelou said

I have quoted Maya Angelou here before (and I'm sure I will again).  She was an amazing woman.   I really like when she said "My great hope is to laugh as much as I cry; to get my work done and try to love somebody and have the courage to accept the love in return." I particularly like the "laugh as much as I cry" part. Human emotion.

bleak midwinter

There is a lovely poem by the English poet Christina Rossetti "In the Bleak Midwinter," commonly performed as a Christmas carol. This time of year in the northern part of the world is actually midwinter, and for many, it is bleak.  It doesn't have to be though.  Feeling cold and miserable?  Well warm things up!  Brighten the day by doing some nice thing for someone else.  Make someone's day.  Thaw the winter chill and be especially kind.

Compliments

It always feels so nice when someone pays you a kind sincere compliment.  It's such an easy thing to do too!  I'll bet if we all give it a try, when can come up with a compliment for just about everybody and wouldn't that make for a lovely day?

Happy Saturday!

It's the end of the week (a WongFu week - WAIT!  Only some of you will get that).  Anyway, it is indeed the end of another week.  Has it been a good one for you?  Have people treated you kindly?  Have you been kind to others?  Let's see what we can do in the week ahead!

About that glass

Is there optimism or pessimism in your life?  Perhaps a bit of both?  About that glass - you know, is it half full or half empty?  It seems to me that we sometimes think about that too much and should simply be grateful to have the glass!

cancer

Today is World Cancer Day. We all agree that cancer is horrible, but I am reminded of these words from Greg Anderson, founder of Cancer Recovery Foundation International. “Cancer opens many doors. One of the most important is your heart.”

reminder

While not everyone is kind, that is not a reason for anyone else to be unkind! Even if someone is mean to you, remember this: You are special. You have purpose. You are loved. Never forget that. This is true of everyone. Remind them too. You are special. You have purpose. You are loved.

smiling

Who was the last person you saw smile, and why were they smiling? Have you looked in the mirror recently? Were you smiling? There's really something special about a smile!

new month

Today begins a brand new month.  February is sometimes thought of as the "love month" because of Valentine's Day on the 14th.  It might therefore be one of the kindest.  That indeed would be a very good thing!

Make the best of it

Yesterday I saw a wonderful and inspiring sign.  It said "The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything."  Indeed.

That was fast

It's hard for me to believe that we have almost reach the end of the first month of the year.  That was fast!  Hopefully each day is getting a bit better for you.  Hopefully there are a lot of wonderful things just ahead.  

What can I do for you?

Some folks go through life always asking "What have you done for me?"  I much prefer thinking "What can I do for you?"  Usually I don't ask, I just look and see what might bring you a little joy, and if I can make it happen, that ends up bringing me joy too!

COVID Kindness

There is something we can all do about COVID-19.  We can all keep our distance.  We can all wash our hands.  We can all wear a mask.  All of this will help to slow the spread.  It's also the kind thing to do.  Oh and one more thing.  We can all get vaccinated just as soon as our age group is eligible!

One week ago

It's hard to believe, but Joe Biden has now been President of the United States for a week.  Oh my!  Have you noticed any differences?  Do we seem to be any kinder?  Seriously, what do you think?

fortunate

Yesterday I told someone "I'm so fortunate to have you in my life."  She really is wonderful.  I should have said that before.  Are you fortunate to have certain people in your life?  Perhaps ALL of the people in your life.  Have you ever said that to them?

Shared quote from a friend

Because a friend of mine know that I write this every day, he shared a quote with me. It's from philosopher and essayist Thomas Carlyle (and I think I have shared it here already, but it's a good one, so onc more). He said "Without kindness there can be no true joy." True!

Be patient

Never give up. 

Great things take time. 

Be patient.

good relationship

"A good relationship is when someone accepts your past, supports your present, and encourages your future." Amen to that! This was said this week by Randy Pangalila to his wife, on the occasion of their wedding anniversary, but I think it works for any relationship. What an uplifting quote.

It just takes one

One kind word can make someone's day!  (Of course one mean word can ruin the day).  Think about it.  We're not talking about spending a lot of money, or requiring a lot of time, or even putting in great effort.  It is so very simple.  It just takes one - just one kind word, and you can bring happiness to someone else.

We look ahead

"We look ahead in our uniquely American way - restless, bold, optimistic - and set our sights on the nation we know we can be and we must be." -words spoken yesterday by newly inaugurated President Joe Biden

Words from Barack Obama

These words from former President Barack Obama seem particularly significant today: "In the unlikely story that is America, there has never been anything false about hope."

America was not built on fear

It has been a rough few weeks with concerns over the pandemic, the elections, unrest in Washington and threats of more. I try to always have a positive attitude. I don't just preach kindness, I practice it. I also get great comfort from those who came before us. Former President Harry S. Truman said "America was not built on fear. America was built on courage, on imagination and an unbeatable determination to do the job at hand." He was correct you know.

light or darkness

Today is Martin Luther King, Jr. Day. How appropriate that it falls just two days before we welcome a new US President.  Dr King said many memorable and encouraging things in his lifetime.  One of them seemed perfect for our time: "The time is always right to do what is right."  I remembered another one though that is even more perfect for us today:  "Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness."

Kennedy's famous words

With this being Inauguration Week, it seems fitting and proper to quote John F. Kennedy from his Inaugural Address back on January 20, 1961. "And so, my fellow Americans: ask not what your country can do for you — ask what you can do for your country. My fellow citizens of the world: ask not what America will do for you, but what together we can do for the freedom of man."

The magic of America

Former Secretary of State Madeleine Albright once said "The magic of America is that we're a free and open society with a mixed population. Part of our security is our freedom."  With turmoil in our government, it's comforting to look at positive messages like this.

Freedom responsibility

First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt said "Freedom makes a huge requirement of every human being. With freedom comes responsibility. For the person who is unwilling to grow up, the person who does not want to carry is own weight, this is a frightening prospect." A very good reminder to us.

About those resolutions

Were you one of the folks who made resolutions when the year began?  So, how are they coming?  It can be tough.  Remember it is a good thing.  If you are having difficulty with them, perhaps you might want to modify them a bit.  The most important resolution (I think) is to be more kind.  That's one I always work on.

Angels working through us

Actress Roma Downey, who once played an angel on television, once said "I think we all do have a guardian angel. I believe they work through us all the time, when we are thoughtful and good and kind to each other."

In the news

There is so much negativity in the news these days and it is easy to become sad, angry, depressed, and a whole variety of emotions.  Some things we KNOW will improve.  Some things already have.  Now is not the time to give up.  (Actually giving up should never be an option).  Now is the time to work harder than ever to make things better.  Share the good.  Share the kindness.  Say no to hate in all its forms.  Believe in the good that we can help bring about!

Say the secret word

How fortunate I am to have enjoyed so much of the work of Groucho Marx. From his films and tv appearances, must folks think of him as a very funny man, but he was also very wise. Said he: “I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn’t arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I’m going to be happy in it.”

Personal experience

So many times last year, and already several times this year, I have experienced great kindness.  There are so many loving, caring people in our world.  I always smile and am thankful when people are kind to me, but I really feel especially lucky.  Being kind to others feels real good, but being on the receiving end feels really good too!

It stays with you

I remember those special moments when folks have done nice things for me.  Kind acts stay with you, whether it was a day ago or way back in your youth.  We never forget those who are kind.

Don't be amazed

It may come as a big surprise, but it shouldn't.  People are basically kind natured.  Don't be amazed when you have the urge to make someone's day.  Don't allow yourself to be surprised by the goodness that is inside you.  Rejoice!  Let it flow!  Let kindness spread to everyone you come in contact with.

Sad Day

Yesterday was a sad day in American history.  It wasn't only sad, it was frightening.  I fear more frightening days ahead.  We can do better.  We know the difference between right and wrong.  My hopes and prayers are for calm and for peace.  May we be kind and considerate and follow the law and may we always show respect, even at moments when we might disagree.

First do no harm

I don't think the phrase "First do no harm" is actually a part of the oath to Hippocrates, though many say it is there, but as a patient this week, I am seeing firsthand that not only do these clinical workers do no harm, but there work so very hard to make people comfortable.  There is not always a cure.  People get sick.  People die.  Thank goodness though for the nurses and doctors and techs and all the many hospital workers.  Thanks too for the kindness of all the family members and friends.  I am truly overwhelmed.

grateful

There is a group of women who are doing some amazing things this week, and I am most grateful.  We need more folks who just step up and do good!

so many ways of being kind

Oh my!  So many things to say about being kind.  So many ways of doing it.  It truly warms my heart whenever I see a kind act.

Being thankful to your past

Author Mehmet Murat ildan said "In the New Year, never forget to thank to your past years because they enabled you to reach today! Without the stairs of the past, you cannot arrive at the future!"

neither an end nor a beginning

As 2021 starts, these words of author Hal Borland come to mind: "Year's end is neither an end nor a beginning but a going on, with all the wisdom that experience can instill in us."

You say you want a resolution

You say you want a resolution? It is a common practice for people to change undesired traits or behaviors and to resolve to continue good practices and perhaps accomplish certain goals or otherwise improve their life at the start of a brand new year. In 2021, I wonder how many are making any sort of resolution. Are you?  Have you had success with resolutions in the past?  I always resolve to try to be more kind and to encourage the kindness of others.  Good luck with whatever you decide and happy New Year to you all!