more than just words

Saying it is important is one thing, but it has to be more than just words.  Every day I try to think positively, even if it seems I am surrounded by negativity.  I want to do kind things because it feels good and makes other people feel good too.  I try to think of new ways to make a difference.  I hope I am getting better at it.  I'd like to think it comes naturally.  What I say is only a part of the picture.  The more important part is what I do.

teaching

Teaching others to do things can be very kind and helpful! Teaching someone to read, for example, is a gift that will last forever. Perhaps tutoring a student, spending more time with your own kids or grandkids, offering to read at a children's library, or volunteering as a helper at an after-school program. Senior citizens often can use a hand learning things too, especially new technology.  A helping hand and the sharing of our knowledge and experience is always a kind thing.

there is something about Sunday

Would you like a ride to church?  We're having a barbecue this afternoon and we'd love to have you join us.  How lovely the weather is!  We gathered these flowers from our garden, and we hope you enjoy them.  Mom spent yesterday baking and she wants you to have this fresh loaf of bread.  There is something about Sunday that just invites kind behavior.  How lovely!

best advice

Writer and philosopher Aldous Huxley said, "It’s a little embarrassing that after forty-five years of research and study, the best advice I can give people is to be a little kinder to one another."

Presence

Another celebrity took their own life yesterday.  We hear about the famous people, but not the stranger across town who commits suicide.  It happens every day and it is sad no matter who it is.  The answers are complicated, but one thing I have seen in the past 24 hours is people saying "I am here if you need me.  Please reach out."  The presence of people who care - people who will listen, can make a huge difference.  As I said, the answers can be complicated but a good place to start is the kind and caring folks who reach out.  I'm so grateful there are people like this in the world!

what about today

It's Thursday morning and as my fingers hit the keyboard, I ask myself what I am going to write here today.  Is there a new message?  Can I say something I have never said before?  This really isn't about new ideas or reinventing the wheel.  The message of this blog has always been very simple:  Be kind.  What more can I say.  Kindness matters.

I've got your back

It's during the worst times of your life that you'll get to see the true colors of the people who say they care about you. If you say to someone "I've got your back," mean it!