One more day

We have just this one more day in this year and this decade and tomorrow we begin again.  How was 2019 for you?  Do you think our world was kind enough?  Can we do better?  Let's always learn from our past, and as we go forward, let us all become more and more kind!

Resolved

Want to lose some weight or get in better shape? How about being more spiritual? Thinking about making some small investments? Maybe you want to quit smoking or exercise more or drink less alcohol. This is the time of year when people make resolutions. (Don't worry. Next week is when we begin breaking them). I have an easy one. I resolve to be more kind and to continue encouraging kindness in others.

My epitaph

There are all sorts of things that people say about us after we pass away, but I would like my epitaph to be, He was a kind person.  What a great way to live life and a wonderful way to be remembered.

Good tidings of great joy

"Do not be afraid, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. And this will be the sign to you: You will find a Babe wrapped in swaddling cloths, lying in a manger."  

                                                                                                           -The Gospel According to Saint Luke

Spreading around that kindness

Bring coworkers a special treat.  Give the gift of your smile.  Tell a bus or taxi driver how much you appreciate their driving.  Draw names at work/school and have people bring a small gift or treat for their secret pal.  Deliver fresh-baked cookies or holiday candies to workers at government offices.  Sweep a neighbor's sidewalk or shovel their snow.  Collect warm clothing during this cold season for those who don't have any.  So many ways we can all show kindness!

holiday words from Laura Ingalls Wilder

"Our hearts grow tender with childhood memories and love of kindred, and we are better throughout the year for having, in spirit, become a child again at Christmas-time." -Laura Ingalls Wilder

Winter is here

Here we go!  The first day of winter, that time of year end everyone leaves the door open - the very same door they were slamming all summer!  Remember, in most places it is much colder this time of year, so show extra kindness, especially to those most vulnerable like the elderly and the homeless.

My Kind Mom

Back in 1926 on this date, one of the kindest people who ever lived was born - my mom. Even though she went to heaven a few years ago, I always think of her on this date and of all the things she taught me, and all the joy she so freely shared with everyone.  I hope I am making her proud.

Blue Christmas

At this time of year with the many celebrations, there is great joy, but for some there is also great sadness. If you lost a loved one around the holidays, it may be particularly difficult. The "Blue Christmas" feeling can be very real. Reach out to your friends. Be present for them. Don't overdo it or smother them, but let them know you care and that you are there for them.

Baby it's cold outside

The song "Baby, It's Cold Outside" has been recorded by tons of artists over the years, but it is also the phrase that comes to mind for me when the temperature begins to drop severely.  In the duet of course, one tries to convince the other that they should stay together for a romantic evening because the weather is cold and the trip home would be pretty tough.  In my thinking, when it gets cold like this, it's all the more reason to be kind and considerate of others.  Let's build a fire, break out the blankets, and stir up some nice hot cocoa (or perhaps a hot toddy).  The warmth of human kindness can melt any cold!

They add up

Those little things - they add up. Small acts of kindness can mean a lot. I remember when I was little and we would go out in the cold for the winter festival where I lived. Our little bodies would be freezing and Mom would give us a great big hug. It was just a small gesture, but it sure helped to warm us up! That nice hot apple cider helped a lot too!  With the cold months arriving, I was thinking back to winters past.  I remember when we would go Christmas caroling and people would invite us into their home for a nice hot bowl of jook or some steaming hot chocolate.  It's those little kind things that people do that mean so much. 

giving all year

It happens every December, and this year I actually heard people saying it last month - this is the "Season of Giving." I love that so many toy collections, canned food drives, holiday donation programs, and other ways of giving spring up just about now. Giving is such a wonderful thing, even if you really can't give much. Why do we have to limit it to three of four weeks? Why not celebrate giving all year long!

Nearly half over

My favorite month is nearly half over.  Oh my!  I love the way everyone seems to get nicer in December and I love the parties and the gift-giving.  I'm not too thrilled about all the rushing though.  We should slow down and cherish the moments.  It would be so nice if this same spirit could be will us all year long too!

In twelve days

The twelve days of Christmas have not yet begun. (I know. The retail folks might be a bit confused about this). In twelve days, we have the first day of Christmas, and then it continues through January 5th. Those twelve days just might be the kindest of the year, or perhaps it is the twelve days leading up to Christmas morning, as everyone prepares for the gift-giving. How about it we extend it to twelve months!

snowy kindness

Have you seen your first snowfall yet this season? As I think thoughts of kindness (and of white fluffy snow), I am reminder of the words of Kahlil Gibran who said "Kindness is like snow. It beautifies everything it covers." Indeed. May we have a long snowy season, or at least one filled with kindness!

Still More Holiday Season Ideas

We have done two days of holiday season kindness ideas.  Here are a few more.  Give coffee or hot chocolate to people on their way to work in the morning.  Volunteer to serve a meal at a holiday dinner.  Go through your closets and find several nice items and then donate them to a shelter.  I'll bet you can think of even more!

More Holiday Season Idea

 Here are a few more ideas (continuting from yesterday) of things you can do to celebrate the season with some special kindness.  Invite someone to see The Nutcracker.  Donate blood.   Participate in Secret Santa programs for families in need.  Call or visit a homebound person, especially on a holiday they celebrate.  Say something nice to everyone you meet today.  

Holiday Season Kindness

Here are a few ideas of things you can do to celebrate the season with some special kindness.  Send a holiday gifts anonymously to a friend.  Tell your parents/children why you love them.  Give a pair of tickets to a concert to a stranger.  Pay for the meal of the person behind you in the drive-through.  Volunteer to read holiday stories to kids in the library.  

the happiness you share

Some people are nicer around this time of year in hopes of getting more Hanukkah and Christmas presents.  Of course there are those who are always nice.  Those are my kind of people.  The biggest present of all is the happiness you share!

I have no proof

I have no proof of this, absolutely no statistics to back me up, but my guess would be that December is the kindest month of the year.  I'm thinking that folks want to be seen in a good light so that they will be remembered favorably when it comes to holiday gift-giving.  Makes sense, huh?  While I also have no proof that planting an idea in your heads might get more of you to try to be more kind, it certainly is worth the try!

December 3rd

Is it cold where you are?  Are there holiday decorations everywhere?  It's only December 3rd, so it really isn't winter yet and even though Christmas appeared way back in September many places, I still think it's too early.  It is never too early though to be a nice person.  December 3rd is the perfect time for kindness because ANY time is the perfect time!

Best of December

If I asked you to choose, what would you say is the best part of December? Is it Christmas? Chanukah? Preparations for the end of the year? There are so many parties and celebrations in this month, but for me the best thing of all is that people seem to be more kind. There's more giving and more loving, and that is always a good thing!

you can't run from AIDS

We have love so many people to AIDS and there are still so many living with HIV. On this World AIDS Day, it's important to keep going forward and not be in denial. The wonderful Queen Latifah said "I lost relatives to AIDS. A couple of my closest cousins, favorite cousins. I lost friends to AIDS, high school friends who never even made it to their 21st birthdays in the '80s. When it's that close to you, you can't - you know, you can't really deny it, and you can't run from it."  We all need to join in the fight, until there's a cure! 

Kind boss

I love waking up to news on tv or in the paper, about kind acts.  A 69-year-old Vietnam veteran is retiring early thanks to the generosity of his boss of over 13 years, according to a report I just read.  Good news indeed!

Leftovers

One of the kindest things we can do is share our food.  Yes, I began with those very same words here on Wednesday, but it is always true.  Do you have some Thanksgiving leftovers?  Make up a little package and share it with the first homeless person you see today.  Going to work?  Bringing food to the workplace is good too.  So many ways to share and keep the spirit of thankfulness going strong!

Be thankful and be kind

Turkey, ham, mashed potatoes with gravy, Brussels sprouts, sweet potatoes, cranberry sauce, stuffing, green bean casserole, squash, and pumpkin pie - that's what many folks are eating today, but it's not about the food.  Hand in hand with giving thanks, is being kind.  Enjoy your dinner.  Spend time with family and friends.  Be thankful and be kind.

Share

One of the kindest things we can do is share our food.  Tomorrow many of us will be sitting down to huge feasts.  Sadly, there are so many who cannot.  What a great time to share your time, your talents, and your assets.  Donate some canned goods.  Help serve a meal at a shelter.  Invite someone you know to join your household for the holiday.  Share.

Receiving is wonderful

Every day I try to be a kind person and every day I write about it here, but as wonderful as it is to be kind to others, it is also very wonderful to receive their kindness.  Yesterday two women, at different times, were exceptionally kind to me, and it truly made my day!

feedback

Whether this is your first time here or if you read this every day, I'd love some feedback.  Why do you read this blog?  What does kindness mean to you?  What is the kindest thing anyone has ever done for you?

Volunteering Our Kindness

Every week I volunteer for a number of organizations, with one of them being a local hospital.  Let me tell you about the great kindness I see there all the time.  I suppose this may be one of those places where it is more important (although I happen to think kindness is important everywhere), but it really warms my heart to see some of the wonderful volunteers and staff people doing extra little things to improve comfort of patients and visitors.  I highly recommend volunteering to everyone!

It doesn't have to be big

It need not cost you money and it doesn't have to be big, in fact some of the kindest things we can do are simply being there for someone else and showing that you care.

Pumpkin spice and everything nice

Don't you just love this time of year?  For a few weeks now that good old pumpkin spice has been showing up in so many things and all kinds of nice fall colors and flavors.  If you live in one of the areas where the leaves change colors this time of year, that's very nice too.  Happy surroundings breed kindness I think.  People seem to show more kindness in the fall and then during the holiday season.  Of course if I could cast a spell, I'd do an extra dose of kindness all year long!

Weekends were made for

Here we are all ready for another weekend!  Most people when asked will say either Friday, Saturday, or Sunday as their favorite day of the week.  Least favorite is usually Monday.  Can't we make them ALL wonderful?  Of course we can!  Weekends were made for kindness, just like all the other days.

Arnel

I don't know how many of you have heard of Arnel Pineda, but I'm sure someday everyone will know of him.  I'm listening to some of his music right now!  Such talent!  From all accounts he is also a very kind person too, and that's what caught my attention.  Someday I would love to meet him!

thanks to the veterans

Today is Veterans Day, honoring the men and women who served in the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, and Coast Guard.  Be especially kind to them and show them your appreciation for their service.

Nothing

Nothing.  There was absolutely nothing here yesterday.  How many of you even noticed?  Yes, I actually clicked a few buttons so there would be an entry, but I left it blank.  Now, picture for a moment a day not without words, but without kindness - ANY kindness.  Pretty grim, huh?  Let's see that it doesn't happen.  Let's see that there is never a day with nothing.

 

November 6th

Just in case you forgot, November 6th is just as good a day to spread kindness as any other.  So, let's do it!

Sister birthday

Happy birthday to my sister who is always very kind.  In fact, she is a role model for me and for others.  (I should write a book about her some day).

Happy birthday Colin!

Civil rights activist and former football quarterback Colin Kaepernick says "My parents told me from the time I can remember that, 'Yeah, you're adopted. But this is your family.' I can remember my mom, she tells me this story: when I was little, I was looking at her, and I was like, 'Why isn't my skin the same color as yours?' 'Oh, you're adopted, but I wish I had pretty brown skin like you,' said Mom."  Happy birthday to a true American hero, and thanks too Colin for sharing that story!

Make Kindness Contagious

After the tragic death of six-year-old Natasha Jaievsky in a car accident, her father Edward Jaievsky discovered her writings and drawings about a wish for a world filled with kindness, and he decided to honor her memory by hanging up signs reading Make Kindness Contagious all over Anaheim, California. What a great idea, huh?  What ideas do YOU have to spread kindness?

Your presence

Reaching out to people who are grieving doesn't happen as often as you might thing. Don’t pretend nothing happened. If you don’t know what to do, simply be there. Your presence will mean a lot.

Kindness with candy

Somehow today got to be mostly about candy.  Oh I love candy.  Don't get me wrong.  There is so much more though to Halloween.  This is one of those days that is just screaming for kindness.  (No tricks - only treats).  What can you do to make someone's day special?  It doesn't have to involve candy, but of course that would be pretty sweet.

Just wait

I shouldn't be munching on candy yet - I should save it for tomorrow.  Just wait!  I'm going to get really for a nice fun Halloween, and a kind one!

Trick or Treat

Giving out "the good candy" at Halloween is certainly a very kind gesture, but I remember years ago when a wonderful neighbor of my grandmother really did it big. Her house was decorated and she had recorded spooky music and sound effects, and best of all she had great homemade treats, that she invited you in to enjoy. There were apples you could bob for and candy apples too. She made popcorn balls, fudge, brownies, and hot chocolate and cider. We went in and enjoyed her atmosphere and the yummy sweets, and had such a good time, we almost didn't want to leave! Wouldn't it be great if folks cared about their neighbors still and that you didn't have to be afraid to visit such lovely people?

Will on Ellen

"Somebody's having a hard time, and you help them.  It's that simple."  I just heard Will Smith say this on Ellen.  You can see so many wonderful examples of kindness on the Ellen DeGeneres program and here just now, Will clearly explains what it's all about.  Let's listen to him.

They're coming

We're just days away from Halloween, about a month away from Thanksgiving, and two months from Christmas.  The holidays are coming!  Don't you wish the kindness and the joy of our holidays could be with us every single day?  Guess what?  It can!  Don't wait for a special day.  Share the kindness and the joy every single day.

Sandwich kindness

If you look in a kid's school locker, you will likely find books, notebooks, and gym clothes. I just heard though about a kid who keeps a jar of Nutella and a loaf of bread in his locker. Why? He has it just in case any of his classmates don’t have lunch of their own. Now that's kindness!

kind pumpkins

Instead of carving faces on your pumpkins this year, carve messages like "Be Kind" or "Spread the love."  What better way to combine the spirit of kindness and the wonderful fall season, than the power of positivity? 

And the ground shook

Glancing at the calendar, I realize that today is the 30th anniversary of an earthquake that killed 63 people, injured 3,757 and caused billions of dollars of damage. I was there in San Francisco when it happened, and as horrible as the deaths and destruction were, I also remember something pretty wonderful: people helping each other. Power went out so there were no traffic signals, and folks pulled over to direct traffic for other motorists. At the freeway collapse and in the marina District were there were so many fires, civilians became heroes. So many people came out and tried to help others people. It was a bad day to be sure, but I will also forever remember how human beings showed such love and concern for others.

Happy Mid-October!

 Here is wishing you all a very happy mid-October!  Enjoy your day, and be kind!

Your thoughts

If you read this every day, you know that I always have something different to say about kindness, but there is so much more that what I might share here.  Would you be so kind as to share your thoughts with us as well?  I'd love to hear some other ideas!  Using the comments section below, write whatever seems to fit relating to being kind.  Thanks for sharing!

From Miss Oprah Winfrey

Oprah Winfrey said "Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough."  She's right you know!

The kindness of Francis

The first week of October is always a welcome time for me because I see so many images of Saint Francis of Assisi along with blessings of animals and commemorations of this most admired and yet least imitated of all the saints.  A kind and loving man, even non-Christians and those who aren't even religious, honor this holy man who's feast day is today.

After three years

After three years of writing this blog, I hope I have become a kinder person.  I hope this has influenced many of you as well.  Do feel free to share the blog with others, and as always, share the kindness too!

Busy Month

October is a busy month!  It is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, Down Syndrome Awareness Month, National Physical Therapy Month, Dyslexia Awareness Month, Organize Your Medical Information Month, Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) Awareness Month, Emotional Wellness Month, National Audiology Awareness Month, National Depression Education and Awareness Month, Patient-Centered Care Awareness Month, and American Pharmacists Month.  It is also Breast Cancer Awareness Month, Spina Bifida Awareness Month, National Bullying Prevention Month, ADHD Awareness Month, National Chiropractic Health Month, National Dental Hygiene Month, and much more.  Be kind!

Three years ago

It was three years ago that I began this daily blog about kindness.  I have no idea who reads it (I can see the number of people who click on it but not who they are, and of course have no idea whether or not they are actually reading) and don't know if this has done any good for other people.  I can say one thing for certain:  this has made me so much more aware of kindness and I think I have become a kinder person.  Thanks for reading!

it's very simple

What is this blog about?  What is our daily message here?  It's very simple.  I write about kindness, and I try to be a kind person.  Join me.  Be kind.

Happy Fall

Nature is kind to us all today as the entire world (or pretty much all) experiences the same amount of light and darkness because the sun shines at the equator.  The equinox, meaning "equal night" is the start of fall.  Have a happy one!

pretty incredible language

"Kindness is a language that the deaf can hear and the blind can see," said Mark Twain. Wow! Imagine that.  "The deaf can hear and the blind can see" - that sounds like a pretty incredible language. We should speak it more often.

Unlucky

Unlucky today?  It is Friday the thirteenth and there is all kinds of superstition, but don't pay any attention.  Be your usual kind and loveable self and everything will be fine!

Say it now

Over the weekend I heard the sad news of someone taking their life.  People were commenting about how loved and respected he was about how much they will miss him.  Did everyone say that before?  If there are people in your life that you care about, let them know it.  Say it now.  Don't wait until it's too late.

The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline provides 

24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, 

prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones. 

 1-800-273-8255

Remember

It has been eighteen years since the horrible terrorist attacks of September 11, 2001 and people will be remembering that all week long, especially today.  In addition to remembering, we all must do everything we can to make sure nothing this terrible ever happens again.  Hate needs to end.  ALL hate.  The world works so much better with love.

here for you

Friendship is not about who you've known the longest, but rather who walked into your life, said "I'm here for you," and then proved it.

The smallest acts

Remember, the smallest acts of kindness can mean a lot to someone - an awful lot!   Spread kindness today, and every day.

Friends

A special friend is hard to find, hard to lose and impossible to forget. True friends are never apart, maybe in distance but not in heart.

Daily reminder

Years ago on the radio, I used to close by saying "It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice."  I've probably told you this story before, but a listener called in and thanked me for saying that.  She said it was her daily reminder to be nice to others.  I'll never forget that.

happiness and personal growth a priority

Make your happiness and personal growth a priority in your life.  The more we take care of ourselves, the more we are able to take care of others.

Another month

September!  Another month is upon us and more opportunity to be kind to others.  Pretty cool how we can have day after day of being kind!

A Man Named Jeff

This morning I am remembering a man named Jeff who during his life was a tireless champion for social justice.  He cared so very much about people and their rights.  May we all care and work for true liberty and justice for everyone!

Social media kindness

Today is my birthday and I woke up to numerous kind wishes on facebook.  It is very likely that more will follow as the day goes on.  It's nice, but at the same time a bit odd.  Some of the remarks come from people I will not hear from again until my next birthday.  How nice it would be if we showed the same concern for each other every day - not just on social media too, but also in real life.

One

One smile, can start a friendship.
One word, can end a fight.
One look, can save a relationship.
One person can change your life.

Happy Monday

So often I hear people moan about Mondays.  Even the song says that "rainy days and Mondays always get me down."  Don't buy into that kind of negativity!  Any day can be happy.  Let's make it so.  Happy Monday everyone!

We need more kindness

I've quoted Ellen DeGeneres here before. What can I say? She inspires me! I was especially stirred when she said "If we're destroying our trees and destroying our environment and hurting animals and hurting one another and all that stuff, there's got to be a very powerful energy to fight that. I think we need more love in the world. We need more kindness, more compassion, more joy, more laughter. I definitely want to contribute to that."

The important I

The "I" before "miss you" and "love you" is important.  Think about it.

the fundraiser folks

I will never get over how kind total strangers can be.  Someone I know, who was living paycheck to paycheck, lost her job and was fearful that she and her dogs would become homeless.  I started an online fundraiser for her and folks just started chipping in.  I don't know how much we will raise, but we are off to a good start.  Most of the donors don't know her and some of them don't even know me!

Everybody

In the second paragraph of the Declaration of Independence, you'll find these words:  "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness."  Now please note there is no asterisk. It doesn't say except for people of color or people with blue eyes or people who are gay or Jewish people or transgender or any other exception.  It says all, meaning everybody!

Be a true friend

True friends are always there for you.

Fake friends only show up when they want something from you.

Be a true friend!

rainbow

Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.

There is much more

Some of you, especially those who read these words every day, might ask "Is there anything more that can be said about kindness?"  Stick around.  Keep reading.  There is MUCH more.  Be kind!

as simple as that

Be kind 

It's really just as simple as that!

self training

We would all do good to train ourselves to live in the present without regretting the past or fearing the future.

find yourself

Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere,
and sometimes in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself.

About August

When I was little, August was my favorite month.  Not only was I out of school for the summer, but this is the month when my birthday occurs.  Since then I have met a number of folks with August birthdays, including a dear friend who will be celebrating today and another who celebrated the same day as me.  I don't know if this is still m favorite month, but it's certainly another chance to show kindness to everyone!

End of month question

On this last day of July, I have a special end of month question:  What is the kindest thing you did this month?  Oh one more:  What was the kindest thing someone else did for you?

Day of Friendship

Today is International Day of Friendship and what better way to be a friend than to show kindness to everyone.  Spread the kindness.  Spread the friendship.

No matter the obstacles

Yesterday and the day before, it got up to 105° where I live.  Today might be even higher.  There is also a huge amount of grasshoppers that just showed up here.  We are already starting out warm and the day is just beginning.  Sometimes you just don't even want to go outside, and yet, that is how we interact with others.  That is how we shine.  No matter the weather and no matter the obstacles, we must keep on sharing that kindness!

Oh and speaking of kindness

What can you say of being kind?  A lot!  Just look back at the daily thoughts I have posted here.  Oh and speaking of kindness, what say YOU?  Are you a kind person?  Would you like to share some thoughts about kindness with us?  Please feel free - any of you, to comment below!

doing kind things

More ideas of showing kindness: Clean graffiti from neighborhood walls and buildings. Buy a stranger a free pizza. Mow a neighbor’s grass or sweep a neighbor’s walk. Offer to return a shopping cart to the store for someone loading a car. Call an estranged family member. Give a bag of groceries to a homeless person. Treat someone to fresh fruit. Sing at a nursing home. Open the door for another person. The list can go on and on!

Ending hate

Waking up day after day so the horrible news of more hate crimes is terribly distressing.  When will it end?  I don't even understand hate.  It makes no sense to me.  Oh and harming someone because of your dislike for them makes even less sense.  Yes, if there was more kindness the world would be a better place, but we really need to end the hate.  Everyone needs to stand up and so NO MORE!  We will not tolerate this!  Ever!

Universal Kindness Day

July 22nd - Universal Kindness Day!  Actually I just made that up, but I will certainly keep trying.  After all, I think every single day should be Universal Kindness Day, don't you?

And the list continues

More kind things we can do: Stop by a nursing home, and visit a resident with no family nearby. Draw names at work or school and have people bring a small gift or treat for their secret pal. Say something nice to everyone you meet today. Volunteer at an organization that needs help. Go through your closets and find several nice items and then donate them to a shelter. And the list continues - it really has no end because kindness has no end! Please know that you are always welcome to add to this list and to share with us your thoughts about kindness in the comments section below.

Yup, there's more

For the past few days I have been listing random acts of kindness, and here are still more: Tell your boss that you think s/he does a good job. Have a clean-up party in the park. Give blood. Pay for the meal of the person behind you in the drive-through. Call or visit a homebound person. Pay a compliment at least once a day. Transport someone who can’t drive. Make telephone calls in support of equality urging others to put aside hate. There are so many more ideas!

Even more ideas

The list we began here keeps growing.  Here's some more ideas:  Deliver fresh-baked cookies to city workers.  Buy cold drinks for the people next to you at a ball game.  Spend some time serving food at a meal program for the needy.  Give a pair of tickets to a concert or baseball game to a stranger.  Send a gift anonymously to a friend.  Pay for the person behind you in the movie line.  Yes, some of the suggestions I have made require money, but that's part of what makes them so kind.

More ideas

Yesterday I suggested some random acts of kindness we might all think about doing, and there are so many more!  We could invite an acquaintance to dinner, sponsor people in fundraising walk-a-thons, volunteer to be a tutor in a school, remember the bereaved with phone calls, cards, plants, and food, and volunteer to read to kids in the library.  We'd love to hear your ideas too!

A few ideas

So speaking of kindness, what are a few things we can each do to get the ball rolling, if we are not already kind people? Well there area lot of random acts, and for the next few days, I'll try to think of a few. On your way to do the shopping, you could give another driver your parking spot. How about just a nice cheery greeting to each person you encounter during your day? Those are both pretty easy. Donate time at a senior center. The gift of time is so appreciated! Maybe you have some ideas. Please share them in the comments section below!

Sizzling kindness

When it's really hot outside, it can be easier to get frustrated and even lose your temper, but a kind smile can help.  On those sizzling days of summer, it's more important than ever to be kind to each other.  Pop a few bottles of water in the freezer, and take them with you as you go about your day.  Most folks will be delighted it you give them one of these bottles, with the water still nice and cold!

Monday Monday

So many people dislike Mondays because it is often the return to work after two days off (or for some, the return to school classes), but why should that be a bad thing?  If we work at something we enjoy, every single day can be positive.  Be kind to the calendar and be kind to yourself, and of course be kind to others.  Monday can be just as wonderful as any day!

Saturday Service

Off from work today?  Have you ever volunteered to help cleanup around the highway or the shores of a lake or ocean?  Working in a community garden is a great way to give back also.  Oh and you can help clean graffiti from neighborhood walls and buildings. Tons of things can be done to make a difference.  It's kind to help out and it makes you feel good.  What about mowing a neighbor’s grass or sweeping a neighbor’s walk?  The list of ideas can go on and on! 

This glorious summer

Flowers, birds, blue skies, all kinds of wonderful - it is a glorious summer for me!  How kind of nature to give us such a gift.  We must repay by treasuring her beauty and not littering or otherwise abusing all this great earth gives us.  If he treat our world right, we can have glorious summers for many years to come!

Kindest day of the month

What is the kindest day of the month of July?  How about today?  We can make this happen.  Start spreading that kindness!

kindness and chocolate

What can possibly be sweeter than chocolate?  Perhaps kindness.  I happen to think they are both pretty sweet and since this is World Chocolate Day, let's have a double helping of both kindness and chocolate!  Sweet!

Groceries

After a medical incident this week, I haven't really felt much like going anywhere.  Yesterday, there was a knock at the door, and a dear friend was standing there with a gallon of milk and several bags of groceries with meat, bread, eggs, soup, and more - a gift from he and his wife because they "thought it would be helpful."  Indeed.  Of course I stood there crying for several minutes.  It's east to write about being kind, but for me it's a bit more difficult to welcome the kindness from others.  I am truly grateful though.  Such a very thoughtful thing to do!

Gorgeous days

Where I live there is so much natural beauty all around me.  Personally I think there is beauty wherever you may be - sometimes you just have to look in a different manner.  During this especially gorgeous days of summer, it's especially easy to show kindness.  The beauty of the earth just makes you want to give back more!

Give me your tired, your poor

The kind words of Emma Lazarus, which you will find at the Statue of Liberty, come to mind this morning.   "Give me your tired, your poor, Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, The wretched refuse of your teeming shore. Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed to me, I lift my lamp beside the golden door!"

Watch out for the heat

As the weather heats up, remember to stay hydrated and avoid excessive heat.  This is something most adults are aware of, but think of the safety of others, including our animals.  Be kind to your dog or cat.  Make sure they always have water available and don't confine them in hot areas, especially in a locked car.

Here we go again

Did you enjoy June?  Well here we go again folks - another month is upon us!  July used to be one of my favorites.  There is a big holiday and for most of the USA there is nice weather.  School used to be out too, but so many places have gone to year-round schedules that many are back in school just a few days from now.  Anyway, enjoy this month and as always, be kind!

Discrimination is NOT kind

I will never understand discrimination in any form.  When I was little I remember the separate drinking fountains labeled "whites" and "colored."  I remember when guys with long hair were thought to be bad.  Oh yeah and there was the looks people gave when they encountered two people of different races together.  Banning gays in the military went on way too long and now apparently we are reintroducing a transgender ban.  Why?  I don't get it.  This is one of the most unkind things I can think of.  How can you ban an entire group of people?

The store clerk

Walking through a department store in a nearby city (the small town where I live has no department stores), I was having a great time browsing.  As I was leaving, I spoke to a clerk near the doors and said I had enjoyed my trip through the store, even though I hadn't bought anything, but now just had to get some coffee.  She smiled, waved, and said "Get some for me too."  I did.  Why not?  It only cost a few bucks more and you should have seen the look on her face.  Her request hadn't been serious - neither of us had even seen the other before.  Her genuine surprise and her joy at receiving that simple cup of coffee, made my day!

Thinking ahead

What really kind thing will you be doing for someone tomorrow or next week?  Think ahead and plan some very special things.  Be bold.  Think ahead to a year from now.  What will you be doing next summer?  Will you be a kinder person?

My 1000th day

One thousand?  The counter for my blog says that today is the 1,000th entry!  Seriously.  When I began this I don't think it ever occurred to me that I would wake up 1000 mornings and write a few lines here about being kind.  Oh my!  Imagine if I had tucked a dollar into a drawer on each of these mornings.  I'd have a nice accumulation - $1,000!  I could take a trip.  Maybe I could donate it and make a difference.  A dollar a day.  Imagine.  Well, I didn't do that (perhaps I will start), but hopefully I became a kinder person.  Maybe I even made a difference for some of you.  Thanks for reading.  I'll be continuing!

On the chalkboard

Go write this 100 times on the chalkboard:   I AM A KIND PERSON.  Wait!  Better yet, let's all just BE a kind person!

Another few minutes in bed

Another few minutes in bed this morning would have made me very happy, but it's not the only thing. Right now, I'll be happy to get some smiles. I'll be happy when I see others who are happy. I'm pretty easy to please. Oh I can get more sleep - I might even go to bed a bit earlier tonight. Right now though, I just want to share some joy!

That kind man back home

There's a man back home whom I met after I had moved away from there.  During a few visits back there I've had an opportunity to chat with him a little, but certainly don't know him well.  I know he is very kind though.  I know he makes a huge difference in my life.  Yesterday I was chatting with someone who also knows him, but not well, and the first thing he said was "he is such a kind man."  What a wonderful way to be known!

A Most Enjoyable Summer

So far for me this has been a most enjoyable summer, and I hope it's the same for you.  Keep on smiling and keep on being kind!

I'll drink to that

Today is National Martini Day.   I'll drink to that!  Maybe this would be a good time to take a friend out for drinks.

The Rock's moving message

“Yes it's important to be yourself, but you gotta recognize the joy and the responsibility of bringing everybody with you,” said Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson during the MTV Movie and TV Awards last night. “You do that by being kind, by being compassionate, by being inclusive, and straight-up, just being good to people, because that matters.”

No More Teacher's Dirty Looks!

"No More Pencils, No More Books, No More Teacher's Dirty Looks!"  Remember that?  Was your teacher really giving you a dirty look?  I'll bet you're sorry you even thought that.  Hey with summer upon us and no school for many (yes, I know there is summer school and year-round school), I'd like to think about all those teachers who make a difference.  Be kind to those who instruct.  It's not an easy job!  I'm grateful for all my teachers from years ago and especially Lou Ella Gridley and Letha Sines.

Dear old dad

You probably already know that today is Father's Day, so be extra kind to dear old dad and to all the fathers in your life (including your grandfathers, fathers-in-law, fathers of your close friends).  Make the day special for them.

Just one word

One kind word can change someone's entire day!  Think about that.  Just one word.

Make Life Beautiful

Today is National Making Life Beautiful Day and being kind certainly helps make life beautiful! Take a moment and help someone less fortunate, donate time to a worthy cause, help someone in your life to achieve a personal goal, or just do something extra nice for someone.  Spread the word too.  Talk about making life beautiful on social media.

Great weekend

I had a great weekend and kindness was the principle reason.  When people are kind to you, it makes you feel good and when you are kind to others, that makes you feel good too.  Now, lets let that kindness continue into the week ahead!

Strawberry Rhubarb Pie

Tomorrow is National Strawberry Rhubarb Pie Day.  This has always been one of my favorite deserts.  If you were to offer me a slice, that would be very kind!  Maybe I will go to the bakery and get a couple of pies to share.  That would be kind too, huh?

June 6th

It's June 6th!  It's Thursday!  Why am I so happy?  Oh my!  Every day should be happy.  Spread the joy and the happiness.  Be kind.

School is out

For most, school is out.  How do you enjoy the summer?  How about starting by doing some nice things for others.  Maybe you would like to volunteer your time.  Think about it.

Let the silliness begin

Today, for those of you keeping track, is Do-Dah Day, an annual salute to silliness.  Remember, you can be silly and still be ind!

Why so quiet?

So many kind readers out there in cyberspace (a counter tells me when someone clicks on this blog.  It doesn't say who and it certainly doesn't know if you actually read these words, but I would guess that most who come here, actually read what I have written), but everyone is silent.  Oh my!  Please feel free to add your thoughts about kindness below!

Pride

Well, we shouldn't have to have parades and celebrations for LGBTQ Pride because there should be full equality and acceptance of ALL people, but since there is not, we have Pride Month.  We should always be kind of course, but during June pay particular interest to our LGBTQ sisters and brothers and be extra kind!

Welcome June

It's not just any Saturday today - it's the beginning of June, a brand new month and a fresh start for being kind.  What can we do to make this month extra special?  I'll bet there are tons of new ways to show kindness!

smile

Today is National Smile Day.  Of course we never need an extra reason to smile.  Our smiles light up the world every single day.  Keep smiling my friends.  Be happy.  Show kindness.

The Good Banker

Last night I discovered fraud on one of my credit cards and so had to call the bank.  Not fun, right?  The banker I spoke with was quick, efficient, and very friendly.  He had everything taken care of in minutes and is rushing a new card to me.  I asked to be transferred to a supervisor so I could report this incredible employee.  A phone call I was dreading, actually left me smiling.  I'm always happy to encounter workers like this one!

it's coming

Growing up, this was one of my favorite times of the year.  School was nearly finished for the year.  Summer was just days away.  The weather was getting nicer.  Oh my!  What not to like, huh?  These days I prefer to not think of what's coming but instead, what is already here.  I prefer to try to make each day great and each day full of kindness!

One of my favorite times of the year

The end of May is one of my favorite times of the year.  It's not too hot yet.  People are having picnics and fishing and holding ice-cream socials.  There is a holiday, but even without that, this always seems like a gateway to the fun summer months.  Let's celebrate by being extra kind!

Remembering

It is not only kind, but right and just to remember and honor all those people who have died while serving in the United States Armed Forces.  On this Memorial Day, the picnics and the store sales are fine, but first take some time for the purpose for which this holiday was created.  Remember them.

Any ideas?

I know I have asked this dozens of times, but since I don't have all the answers, I turn to you.  Do you have any ideas on how we can make this a kinder world?  I'd really love to hear your thoughts.

Automatic

For many people, kindness is automatic.  Unfortunately though there are some who have never done anything we would think of as kind.  That can change though.  It's really quite easy.  The more good you do, the easier it is, and before you know it, it can become automatic for you too.  Think about how wonderful you can make someone feel.  Think about the smile they'll give you!

The Trip

Kindness comes in many forms, but all kind acts make love so much more joyful. Once, a couple I know who were aware I really wanted to attend an event, made sure I was indeed there. They sent me on a trip, paying for my flight and my hotel, and wouldn't take no for an answer. There kindness and that trip will always be happy memories for me and are just one more encouragement that we should all show kindness, whenever we can.

Kindness all around

Yesterday I ran into so many kind people doing kind things.  Oh my!  It really was amazing and it is so very encouraging when you see folks being so nice and caring toward others. 

Merry Merry Month of May

Remember this old ditty?

While strolling through the park one day

In the merry merry month of May

I was taken by surprise

By a pair of roguish eyes

I was scared but I didn't run away 

 



So what do YOU do in this merry merry month of May?

Dreaming it

I have often said this, but it is so true!  If you can dream it, you can achieve it.   Never give up. Oh and when you accomplish your own dreams, reach out and help some other folks do the same thing.

What have you to say

You may have guessed that I think kindness is important and I like writing this every morning and encouraging all of you.  I would also really love your feedback.  Am I missing something?  Are there ideas that should be shared?  Has this blog benefitted you?  Say something!  Use the comment section to let me know your thoughts.  Thanks.

Happy Saturday

Happy Saturday everyone!  I hope you had a great week!  Now let's do it all again and have another incredible with the week that begins tomorrow.  Keep being kind.  Never stop!

cherry cobbler

This is National Cherry Cobbler Day. It really is. How come we have so many delicious food days? Oh my! Anyway, a very kind thing is always sharing some of those yummies. I would always love a bit of cherry cobbler.

Traffic kindness

Every time I hear about road rage, I shrug my shoulders and ask why?  This seems to be a me first situation when it could just as easily be a courtesy and kindness matter.  I love hear stories of how drivers yield to others and how they let folks pass them or merge into traffic.  See someone driving crazy?  Call it in!  You just might be saving a life.  Weaving, drifting, swerving, straddling the center line, driving too slowly, and other erratic driving doesn't necessarily mean that driver is drunk.  They may be over-tired and not realize it.  They might also me having a medical emergency.  Care.  Kindness on the road is just as important as anywhere.

Happy birthday

It may seem odd that I would say happy birthday this morning (unless of course it is yours), but I do have an unusually high number of friends celebrating this week, especially today.  Of course saying happy birthday is the kind thing to do, even if you are not close.  People like being remembered and what easier way is there?  Don't forget birthdays!  Social media is very helpful at keeping track.

Here comes summer

Just about everyone loves summer, right?  It's actually still more than a month away, but where I live, things have been warming up, and it seems like summer.  I don't have any direct evidence, but I have been told that people tend to be kinder during the summer months.  What do you think?  I always hope to see kindness extended all year.

Einstein said

We all know about Albert Einstein's brilliant mind.  One example are these encouraging words from him:  “In the middle of a difficulty lies opportunity.”

Mothers

With all that they do for us, how can we not be kind to our mothers?  It shouldn't be confined to just this one day though.  Let's always be kind to our mothers!

Happy May 11th

Happy May 11th?  Indeed.  Every single day should be happy.  That might not seem realistic, but if we do our best to make things happy for others, we will find a lot of happiness for ourselves as well!

100 Kind

In three months, a neighbor of mine will turn 100.  I think I know her secret too.  She is always smiling, happy, and kind to those around her.  Will kindness help you live to be 100?  I have no absolute proof, but it sure won't hurt!

Coconut Cream Pie

Today is National Coconut Cream Pie Day!  Yum.  (That's one of those days I could enjoy EVERY day).  A very kind thing would be to share some delicious coconut cream pie.

Listen

Listen to your heart.

Share the love.

Always be kind.

be kind to a nurse

Today is National Nurses Day, which kicks off National Nurses Week, ending on May 12, the birthday of the founder of modern nursing, Florence Nightingale.  Thank a nurse today!  They do such important work!  They really should be recognized every single day, not just during a special week.  So be kind to a nurse today, and do your best to keep on recognizing them!

Happiness and joy

Hello!  Happiness and joy to all of you!  May this be a wonderful Saturday for you and may kindness surround you both now, and always!

question from a philosopher

Here's a question for you this morning from the French philosopher Jean-Jacques Rousseau:  "What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?"  You're welcome to mull that around today, but I'm sure you will find there is none.

What is there to say?

A blog about kindness?  Yup.  That is what this is.  What is there to say?  Well, apparently a lot since we have been doing this for a couple of years.  What are we missing though?  Add some of YOUR thoughts in the comments section below.  Of and kindly tell your friends too!

Hello May!

Welcome to May, the fifth month of the year.  Let us show kindness all month long and make May a happy and joyful time for everyone!

Sunrise music

Does music make you happy? The sun is just now coming up where I am, but I'm already listening to happy peppy music (oldies) and it helps charge me up for the day and it certainly helps me to be happy. I try to be pleasant and kind always, and being happy leads me in that direction. You might say that good music makes me a kinder person.

Just because

“Just because” can be such a sweet reason to do something.  Let's be kind today,  just because.

Pay It Forward Day

I have talked about paying it forward before, and I'm always talking about various acts of kindness, but did you know there was a special day for this? Pay It Forward Day is a global initiative that exists to make a difference by creating a huge ripple of kindness felt across the world. Great idea, huh? I am so excited that there are now have over 80 countries participating in Pay it Forward Day with over 100 state and city proclamations. If where you live isn't involved, change that. Talk to you leaders and keep setting an example, not just on this one day, but every day!

Additional quotes

The past two days, I shared some quotes about being kind, from American essayist and poet Ralph Waldo Emerson. He said a lot of things about kindness, but so did many other folks. Do you have a favorite quote you's like to share?

More from Emerson

I love quoting Emerson (like I did yesterday). I really like that he said "You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late." I also am inspired by these words of his: "Hitch your wagon to a star."

Inspiration from Emerson

I really like these words of Ralph Waldo Emerson: "You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late." I'm also inspired by this that he said: "Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail."

smiling for the eggs

Yesterday I bought 20 chocolate eggs and gave them out to some of my favorite people in the hospital where I work.   Oh my!   I got so many smiles.  One of my favorite things is getting folks to smile.

The heat is on

Where I live it is already warming up a LOT.  (That sure was a short spring, huh)?  I'm not good with the hot days - I much prefer cool or even cold.  Be kind to me.  A fan would be nice.

More Kindness

More than anything, I would like to see more kindness.  I really don't understand how anyone could object or disagree.  It doesn't cost money or require special training.  It doesn't even have to cost us any extra time.  Being nice and being kind should be a natural thing that we simply do.

The Call

Yesterday was a busy one for me.  At a bit before five though, everything became wonderful.  It was a caring person calling me on the phone that made everything so special.  People don't seem to take the time these days, for themselves or for each other.  I'm glad this friend took the time though and made that call.  It truly made my day!

Jonah Kim on love

My friend Jonah Kim is one of the most inspiring people I know. He says "It's easy to love those who love you, that is, when they love you the way you want to be loved. It isn't so easy to love those who wrong you time and time again. But we are human and we are bound to fail those we love over and over again over the course of a lifetime." Jonah continues "Some say this kind of love can only exist between parent and child. If you have never experienced the desire to love this way, perhaps you haven't learned to truly love yet. This is why divorce rates keep rising; majority of matrimonial vows are defenestrated in the first year because the 'I' is so much more important than the 'love you'." 

Let me count the ways

How many random acts of kindness can their possibly be? Let me count the ways. When a new business opens in town, drop of a plant or fresh flowers to welcome them. You can do the same thing when a new family moves into your neighborhood. Donate blood. Volunteer to be a tutor in a school or perhaps at the local library. Let the shopper behind you in the grocery store go ahead of you in line. Say nice things randomly to folks on facebook or twitter. Smile. Cheerfully greet those you come in contact with. Oh my! There are so many ways.

Comparison

Why compare yourself with others? No one in the entire world can do a better job of being you than you.  Remember that!

Your feedback is welcome

Have you read this blog before?  Do you come here often?  I was just wondering if you would share your thoughts about what you read here or about kindness in general.  I would love to have some feedback.  Just share in the comments section below.

appreciation

Today where I work, the many volunteers are going to be honored.  April is designated as Volunteer Appreciation Month and the 20th of the month is officially Volunteer Appreciation Day.  Whatever day you may select, recognize the importance of those who volunteer their time.  They truly make a difference.

Do you know what day it is

Do you know what day it is?  It's Thursday silly!  You probably thought this was a trick question, huh?  Well make it a kind day.  In fact, let's make every day kind.

many thanks

Every morning I get up and write something here about kindness.  I know I have said this before, but I really cannot say this enough.  Thank you!  Many thanks for being kind people and many thanks for reading my words.  I hope some of them inspire you.

Kind week

I have a feeling this is going to be a very kind week.  I'm certainly going to do my best.  I hope all of you will join me too!

Kind coffee cake

Today is National Coffee Cake Day.  Did you know that?  My mouth began watering the moment I thought about coffee cake and then my heart was glad when I remember that kind cake someone made especially for me.  WAY back when I was just a teen, a lady where I lived used to make a delicious mace cake.  Oh my!  It was so yummy!  I was never able to duplicate it myself, but I mentioned it to a woman a few years ago and told her how much I missed it.  That's where the kind cake came it - she made a wonderful coffee cake with mace that tasted so much like the one I remembered from years earlier.  What a kind thing to do!

nature's kindness

The spring season is probably my favorite.  Oh don't get me wrong - there are wonderful things about all times of year, but in the springtime when we see the fresh leaves growing on trees and the flowers blooming (especially if you live where there has been snow on the ground).  Springtime is an example of nature's kindness.

Upcoming Food Days

National Grilled Cheese Sandwich Day is coming up. National Peach Cobbler Day too. Yum! Oh and of course there is also Passover and Easter. April has some lovely food days. I feel like a nice grilled cheese sandwich right now. (My favorite comfort food).  Enjoy the month.  Be kind to each other.  Be sure to save some room for the chocolate eggs too! 

Hospital kindness

I volunteer at a local hospital.  Unfortunately I have also been a patient there a lot lately as well.  On the plus side though there have been so many kind moments, but things directed at me and things I have observed.  It really warms my heart when I see nurses and doctors and all different hospital workers going above and beyond what they need to do. 

Happiness to you

Hello!  Thanks for stopping by!  I mean it.  I appreciate that folks read my messages here.  Do come back often.  I write something here every single day.  The theme is being kind to others and to ourselves.  I hope that something I write here inspires you.  Do feel free to forward this to others too.  Much happiness to you always!

no pranks from me

Today is All Fools Day (often also called April Fools).  There will no doubt be all kinds of practical jokes and pranks.  Most will be good natured and funny.  Some, unfortunately, will cross the line.  From me there are no pranks today.  Instead of pranks, I want to offer thanks - thanks to all the people who offered their kindness and support during my recent time in the hospital and thanks to every one of the many hospital workers I encountered, especially the nurse who always had a smile.  You ALL made a difference!

simple

Be kind.   (It's really quite simple.  The message doesn't have to be complex.  We don't have to spend hours thinking about it.  Why would anyone not want to be a good kind person?  It just doesn't make sense.   And so, this very simple message).   Be kind.

Hospital gowns

Those gowns they give you in the hospital and certainly not all that good looking.  I'm a patient right now and if you come to visit, be kind.  (ALWAYS be kind of course, but especially if you see me or any patient in this outfit.  Oh my)!  Of course the good thing around here is so many caring people.

follow those dreams

Everyday is a new opportunity to follow our dreams!  One of my dreams is for the entire world to be filled with kindness.

Tell me a story

I could tell you a story this morning, but I usually tell you stories of sort here.  I'd like to hear some of yours too!  I'd really love to hear about so very kind act that someone once did for you.  (It doesn't even have to be recent).  A story about a kind act you did for someone else would be lovely too.  Come on!  Tell me a story!

Kind relatives

Yesterday I mentioned my mom.  I know I received so much kindness from her.  The same is true of her mother, my Nana.  What a very kind lady she was.  My sister is also very kind.  I suppose it runs in the family!

Remembering Mom

Yesterday was the sixth anniversary of my mother's passing, and while there is always sadness that she is no longer here, the day is easier when folks take time to reach out.  There were posts on social media, messages, and emails to me, and the words were both touching and comforting.  This of course is another example of kindness and I am most grateful.

Being hated

Yesterday I said no hate.  I always say that, but yesterday I said it here.  Hate stings.  On Friday and then again on Saturday, some hateful things were said to me.  Think.  How would you like someone saying vile, nasty, hateful things to you?  Being hated just for who you are is a horrible thing.  We can change that.  We each have the power to put an end to hate.

No Hate

How sad to wake up on so many days with news of more hate crimes somewhere in the world.  While encouraging kindness, I have to say how important it is for all of us to take a stand against hate.  Such a waste to be so destructive.  Say no to hate and say yes to love and mutual respect.

Another Saturday

Saturday is the favorite day of the week for many people.  Why?  It's just another day, right?  We can make every day special just by staying happy and being kind.  Happy Saturday everyone and carry that with you into tomorrow too!

Equality for all

Seeking to end the legal distinctions between men and women in terms of divorce, property, employment, and other matters, the Equal Rights Amendment was a proposed amendment to the United States Constitution designed to guarantee equal legal rights for ALL Americans. It was first introduced in Congress way back in 1921 and finally passed in Congress on this date in 1972 and was then sent to the states for ratification, but fell short by three states. Let's bring it back.  Let's try gain.  Equality for all isn't just kind, it is right.

Spring has sprung

The vernal equinox was last night, marking the astronomical first day of spring in the Northern Hemisphere!  woo hoo!  I know many of you are happy about that, huh?  Spread the joy!

One more day of ideas

We can tell a bus or taxi driver how much you appreciate their driving. Give another driver your parking spot.  Give public testimony about an important civic matter. Volunteer at an organization that needs help. Buy books for a day care or school.  Let us hear some ideas from you too!  As I have been saying, the list is endless.

I said the list never ends

Yes, I said the list does not end.  Here are more ideas.  Clean graffiti from neighborhood walls and buildings. Buy a stranger a free pizza. Give a bag of groceries to a homeless person. Give coffee to people on their way to work in the morning. Leave a treat or handmade note of thanks for a delivery person or mail carrier. Treat someone to fresh fruit Sing at a nursing home. Open the door for another person. Leave an extra-large tip for the waitperson.

The list of ideas never ends

The last few days I have listed a lot of random things we can all do to spread the kindness.  Are there more?  Of course!  We can never run out!  We can do many things!  Invite someone new for dinner, either in your home or in a restaurant. Say nice things randomly to facebook and twitter friends. Buy some bottles of water and randomly hand them out to strangers on the street. Drop off a plant or a plate of cookies to your nearby police or fire station.  What else?

Even more ideas for March

Even more ideas today.  Share a Saint Patrick's Day meal of corned beef and cabbage.  Bring some green treats to friends.  Go through your closets and find several nice items and then donate them to a shelter.  Give toys to the children at a shelter. Volunteer to fix up an elderly person's home. Buy a pack of brightly colored stickers and give them to children you meet during the day. Let the person behind you in the grocery store go ahead of you in line. Give your full attention to someone in need and simply listen.

still more mid-March ideas

Yup, here are more ideas.  When drivers try to merge into your lane, let them in with a wave and a smile. Tell your boss that you think he/she does a good job. Call or visit a homebound person. Pay a compliment at least once a day. Transport someone who can’t drive. Make telephone calls in support of equality urging others to put aside hate. Say something nice to everyone you meet today. Send a treat to a school or day-care center.  Give flowers to be delivered with meal delivery programs.

More mid-March kindness

Here are some more ideas of ways to spread kindness.  Tell your parents/children why you love them. Spend some time serving food at a meal program for the needy. Volunteer to be a tutor in a school. Stop by a nursing home, and visit a resident with no family nearby. Have a clean-up party in the park. Bring coworkers a special treat. Volunteer to read to kids in the library. Make a point of finding the name of a supermarket or drugstore employee and then praise him/her through that company’s corporate office.

mid-March ideas

Here are a few kind things you can do to make the world a little kinder: Share your smile generously, take an acquaintance to dinner, sponsor people in fundraising walk-a-thons, donate time at a senior center, give a pair of tickets to a concert or baseball game to a stranger, send a gift anonymously to a friend, or pay for the person behind you in the movie line.  Can you think of some more?

Oddball

I'm probably an oddball, but I love the winter!  The cold months are my favorite and where I live we recently had a big snowfall, which was so pretty to look at.  Of course there are nice things about the spring too and that is just days away.  I love seeing flowers poking their way through the snow!  Maybe I'll send some flowers today.  That's not such an oddball thing.  Everyone loves flowers!

How's everyone doing?

Hey!  How's everyone doing?  Is all well in your life?  Are you being kind to everyone?  My experience show that kind people are usually the happier people!

Compliments

So many compliments lately - not only directed at me, but I have overheard folks complimenting each other.  Another great example of kindness!

What I Like About Myself

Last night, What I Like About Myself was trending on twitter. I took a look and saw that someone had said "That I make my friends happy." That's the spirit!  Let's make the whole world happy.

Specific acts

Being kind is so many different things.  Some people try to think up specific acts.  I do that sometimes myself.  Being nice can be a pleasant greeting and a smile.  I like to think of it as a way of life.  Those random acts of kindness can be such powerful tools though to help us stay on the path.  Even the nicest people need encouragement sometimes and intentionally doing something kind is great tonic to keep us moving forward.

Another Ash Wednesday

Memento, homo, quia pulvis es, et in pulverem reverteris.

Do you read this every day?

Being kind is what this blog is all about.  I've said a lot, but there is always more to say.  Do you read this every day?  Have you ever commented or mentioned this to others.  Do share.  That's another kind thing we can easily do.  Together we can make this a kinder world!

March forth on March fourth

I have always told people that my mom would say March 4th is a command (march forth).  It's been nearly six years since she passed away, but I'm certain I will always remember this.   Cherish your memories everybody, and may we all march forth on March fourth and do kind things for each other!

Back to the beginning

Just for the heck of it, I went back to the very beginning of this blog and started reading some of what I wrote.  This nice warm feeling came over me as I pictured the many things we can all do to make this a kinder world.  I had to pull myself away so that I could write this fresh message for today, but I think I will make it a point to go back every now and then and get some additional encouragement.

March

March.  It's not just a month.  March is what we can do to go forward.  Let's march down the street and do good things.  Let's march right up to our neighbors and friends and show them how wonderful we think they are.  May we march through our days with kindness and love!

Done

It's hard to believe we have finished another month.  February ends today, but of course it is shorter than the rest.  One thing that is not done of course is our kindness.  We will continue being kind all the days of our lives!

Pink shirts

Wardrobe Alert! Today is Pink Shirt Day. Wear pink to take a stand against bullying and show what a difference kindness can make.

How to do it

Do you ever pick up any of those how-to books that show you how to build a bookcase or install plumbing or any number of other instructional things?  Is there a book that shows us how to be more kind?  Perhaps we can all write one.  What is the first step we can take to be kinder people.  Are there any directions you can think of that will increase kindness in our lives?

A very kind day

Happy Monday everyone!  I hope you all enjoyed your weekend and I hope you all have a very kind day.  Spread niceness everywhere you go!

No reason to wait

There have been a lot of celebrity deaths in the news the past few days, and I've heard folks saying wonderful things about them.  The same thing often happens with family members and friends.  We speak of people in glowing terms after they are gone, but what do we say when they are alive?  There really is no reason to wait.  Show your love and appreciation every single day.

I love a parade

Tonight is San Francisco's annual Chinese New Year Parade.  I'm not there, but I love a parade!  It is one of those happy things.  I'm so glad it is televised and I can watch the live-stream.  When I am filled with joy, I think I am kinder.  Let's all watch the parade.  Oh wait!  I have an idea.  Let's put on a kindness parade!

More snow kindness

Yesterday I wrote about winter weather and where I live it snowed - a LOT.  We don't get much snow here so even just a dusting is a big deal.  It was so nice seeing people look out for others though.  I even had someone call me to see if I was okay.  Another example of kindness.

In the cold winter

Every year in the cold winter, we hear of folks struggling just to keep warm.  Got some coats or blankets you know longer need?  Consider donating them.  Some nice warm socks are helpful too.  Oh and the homeless folks you pass all the time, in your kindness buy them a cup of nice hot coffee or tea every now and then.  Caring people can warm things up this winter!

believe it

Believe in it until it manifests for you.  Don't overthink how it will happen.  Don’t worry about when it will happen.  Just believe it.  Allow it.  Let it flow in.

today, tomorrow, and every day

Always be kind.  Not just sometimes, but today, tomorrow, and every day!

Even the plants and trees

Yesterday was such a glorious day where I live.  Even the plants and the trees seemed to be showing kindness to each other.  It's interesting how nice and beautiful always make me think of being kind.

This is not the source of all kindness

This blog is not the source of all kindness.  Try as I might, I am not the perfect person and I certainly don't have all the answers.  I try though.  We all can do that.  We can all strive to do our best to be kind to everyone.  I want to see a nice high success rate too!

speaking of love

Oh and speaking of love, consider these words from Henry David Thoreau: There is no remedy for love but to love more.

every day

Yesterday there were so many positive things posted on social media.  I saw messages of love and words of kindness.  People were receiving flower deliveries all day as well.  Wouldn't it be great if this attitude carried on today, and tomorrow, and EVERY day?

Love from Dr Seuss

It was just a week ago that I quoted Dr Seuss here, but last night I remembered these words of his and, it being Valentine's Day, seemed like a perfect time to share them. The talented children's author said "You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."

distance yourself from negativity

Beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from negativity.  Try it!

we've only just begun

There are 322 days remaining until the end of this year.  Yup, we've only just begun.  (Wasn't that a song by The Carpenters)?  Be kind everyone and have a great day!

Your thoughts

Every now and then I ask what you think and today I am doing that again.  What are your thoughts about kindness?  Do you have a story to share?  Add a comment below and let everyone in on what you think about kindness.

Only one thing sweeter

Valentine's Day is almost here and sweet candy comes with it.  A couple of months later more candy when Easter arrives.  Toward the end of the year we get additional confections for Halloween and then Christmas.  Yum!  Who doesn't love candy - at least occasionally?  I used to enjoy summertime fudge too.  There is only one thing sweeter than candy and that is kindness!

Saturday Kindness

What day of the week are we the kindest?  Well, I try to do better each day, so therefore today I would be kinder than yesterday.  Join me.  Let's all make this Saturday a very kind day!

I have the power

Want to do good things?  I certainly want to, and I have the power!  Yup.  You better believe it.  But you have the power too.  Every single one of us have the power.  Let's all work together then and spread the good.  Let's sprinkle that love and kindness wherever we go.

A week before

It's just a week until Valentine's Day and I love seeing all the hearts and flowers and happy wishes.  Yes, the emphasis is on romantic love, but all love is important including the love of our neighbors and our friends.  How nice it would be if we could have this positive attitude every single day of the year!

Two-way street

Ever think about the number of people who call you or send you cards or email, or even the folks who text you?  Yes, it's lovely to get a card in the mail or receive a telephone call from a friend, but it's a two-way street.  WE can all send as well as receive.  Rather than saying "Nobody ever calls me," pick up the phone and place a call.  Don't worry if your inbox seldom has any emails.  Instead, send some yourself!

simple message

I say it every single day, but the message is actually very simple:  Be kind to each other.  How hard is that?

More kind things we can do

Buy a stranger a free pizza. Give flowers to be delivered with meal delivery programs. Spend some time serving food at a meal program for the needy. Volunteer to be a tutor in a school. Stop by a nursing home, and visit a resident with no family nearby. Have a clean-up party in the park. Bring coworkers a special treat. Volunteer to read to kids in the library.

Ways to Be Kind

Share your smile generously. Take an acquaintance to dinner. Sponsor people in fundraising walk-a-thons. Donate time at a senior center. Give a pair of tickets to a concert or baseball game to a stranger. Send a gift anonymously to a friend. Pay for the person behind you in the movie line. Tell your parents/children why you love them. Oh my!  There are so many ways to be kind!

Message from a school

There is a school just down the street from where I live and the message on their signboard caught my eye yesterday.  It says "Choose kindness."

Better

Some days are better than others.  Some months are better than others too.  February is often thought of as the love month, because of Valentine's Day.  I'm all for love of course, but I would like to see every month filled with love.  Spread the kindness.  No need for some days or some months to be better than others.  Let's make them all amazing!

We're done

We're done!  Oh no, not with being kind.  We will always be kind!  We have finished the month though, and tomorrow we begin the short one, February.

The list of kind acts goes on and on!

Make a point of finding the name of a supermarket or drugstore employee and then praise him/her through that company’s corporate office. Buy some bottles of water and randomly hand them out to strangers on the street. Drop off a plant or a plate of cookies to your nearby police or fire station. Clean graffiti from neighborhood walls and buildings. The list of kind acts goes on and on!

Another quote from Dr King

At the beginning of last week, as we honored Dr Martin Luther King, Jr, and I posted something from him here. Another quote of his came to mind yesterday and it really speaks to the love and kindness we share. He said "Those who are not looking for happiness are the most likely to find it, because those who are searching forget that the surest way to be happy is to seek happiness for others."

Rushed to the hospital

The pain was incredible when I was rushed to the hospital late at night and I have to say I was probably not as kind as I would like to be.  Oh my!  I was probably even rude.  The Emergency Department staff could not have been nicer.  The pain medication had me feeling better and I apologized to everyone, but they all said the same thing:  I had acted like anyone in pain might.  (By the way, it was kidney stones).  Anyway, there may be a time when you are not as kind as you would like, but always strive to be your best.

Many seeing kindness

Many of my friends have been reporting on social media, about seeing various acts of kindness.  I'm always happy to hear stories of kind acts, and especially now that there seems to be so many.  Let's keep it going.  We can never have too much kindness!

Happy music

Does music make you happy?  The sun has been up where I am for less than an hour, but I am listening to happy peppy music (oldies) and it helps charge me up for the day and it certainly helps me to be happy.  I try to be pleasant and kind always, and being happy leads me in that direction.  You might say that good music makes me a kinder person.

Words of Saint Paul

On this day in which the conversion of the Apostle Saint Paul is remembered, some words of his come to mind.  In his letter to the Colossians he said "as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience."

Compliment Day

Folks today might be waiting for some kind words because it is National Compliment Day.  I hope that encourages people to take a bit of time and intentionally pay some compliments.  One kind word can change someone's entire day!  All you daily readers are wonderful!  Let's make this happen.

Good morning world

Hello all!  Good morning world (or good afternoon or evening, if you are reading this at a later time)!  We are halfway through another week.  Make it a kind one!  Spread the happiness!

A Mental Exercise

Take just a moment to think about the last kind act someone did for you.  Picture that in your mind.  Now think about how it made you feel.  Imagine if everyone you encountered did something kind for you.  How would you feel then?  Hold that image in your mind.  Wow!  Now if we all practiced this same kindness, picture the results.  Oh my!

Forgiveness

Part of being kind, I think, is being able to forgive.  On this day in which we honor the legacy of Dr Martin Luther King Jr, I am reminded of something he said: "Forgiveness is not an occasional act, it is a constant attitude."

A little help please

What can be said that hasn't already been said about kindness?  A little help please.  Some days I feel like I am repeating myself.  Sometimes a fresh point of view is helpful.  What are your thoughts?  What does kindness mean to you?

piping hot coffee

There is nothing better on a cold winter morning than a cup of piping hot coffee, especially when someone hands you a cup they just bought for you and it's exactly the way you like it!  What a very kind thing to do.

Pooh words

Today is National Winnie the Pooh Day (celebrated on author A. A. Milne's birthday), and these words from Pooh come to mind: "You can’t stay in your corner of the forest waiting for others to come to you.  You have to go to them sometimes."

birthday greetings

Wishing someone a happy birthday helps to brighten their day and it only takes a few seconds!  Be kind and remember the birthdays of those around you.  Today we especially remember former First Lady Michelle Obama and the fabulous Betty White Ludden.

Lin-Manuel's birthday

Today is the 16th day of the year in the Gregorian calendar, with 349 days remaining in 2019.  Oh and it's also the birthday of one of the world's nicest, kindest people Lin-Manuel Miranda.  Let's follow his example and share the love!

Laughter

Waking to the sad news that the great Carol Channing has passed away, I am reminded of her wish words about laughter:  "Laughter is much more important than applause.  Applause is almost a duty.  Laughter is a reward."

Random thoughts from you

For the past week I have mentioned various random kind acts that will make someone's day.  There are so many ideas of course.  Please feel free to share some of yours!  (Actually your thoughts are always welcome here).

One more random act of kindness

How about another random act?  When paying for your breakfast in a restaurant, ask for the check of a random diner (especially someone who is elderly or who is dining alone) and pay it without their knowing.  Wow!  That will really make someone's day!

 

More nice gestures

Load extra money in vending machines to buy the next person's snacks when they come along.  It will be a pleasant surprise for them!  Leaving a few extra quarters next to the washers or dryers in the laundromat is another nice gesture.

 

 

Want to make someone's day?

Want to make someone's day?  Sing an employee's praises to their manager or on a comment card — a little recognition goes a long way.  Believe it or not, people complain more often than praise even though most workers deserve the praise more often than the complaint.

 

 

 

Another random kind act

Another random kind act:  Help a friend see today in a wondrous new light: present them with a kaleidoscope. They really aren't very expensive and are available in most toy stores.  Like the coloring books I mentioned on Tuesday, this is something stores might give you or discount if you tell them what you are doing!

 

 

 

More winter random acts

Since I mentioned a random kind act yesterday, I thought I would continue with more.  Buy boxed valentines (the kind kids use for their schoolmates - they're available in stores right now) and send them to people at random times to brighten their days.  You can do it now - no need to actually wait for Valentine's Day!

 

Random acts in the winter

It's cold and gray where I live, but random acts of kindness can always warm things up!  How about giving the pediatric wing of a hospital a stack of $1 coloring books and $2 boxes of new crayons?  Good idea, huh?  (Some stores even give away coloring books to their customers. Tell them what you want to do and see if they will then give you a quantity).

 

Ripped from the headlines

Waking  to this headline:  Sandra Oh And Andy Samberg Kill Hollywood With Kindness In Golden Globes Opening.  The reference of course was to last night's Golden Globe Awards, and the kindness - well that is always a good thing!

About those resolutions

Did you resolve to change an undesired trait or behavior or set some kind of goal to improve their life as the year began a few days ago? How is that coming for you?  I know it's early on, but to be successful, you need to stick with it!  Each year I resolve to be kinder and more caring.  Join me!

12th

For those of you keeping score, today is the twelfth day of Christmas.  I hope you have enjoyed this season!  The holiday may be ending tonight, but let's keep the joy alive every single day.  Share the love and kindness!

First Friday

Today is the first Friday of the year.  Fridays used to be my favorite days of the week - weekends for me meant no school, and later no work.  Fridays were the beginning of a time of rest and of fun.  Now, while I still love Fridays, I love the other days too.  We can make any day a good one. 

Still

Are you enjoying your Christmas?  Yes, I said it correctly because it is still Christmas.  In fact it will be Christmas until January 5th!  (Twelve days altogether).  So enjoy, and spread the kindness!

am very grateful

As 2019 begins, I want to thank all the folks who read these words and all who share them.  Thanks also for the comments you have left.  I appreciate it and am very grateful!  I don't know if this makes a difference at all and if somehow this blog has helped to bring more kindness to the world, but I am hopeful.  I do know that writing these thoughts each morning has helped me to be more aware and hopefully I have become a kinder person.

Happy 2019

Happy New Year everyone!  Thanks for reading my thoughts here in this space.  I hope you have a wonderful 2019 and my this be a year filled with lots and lots of kindness!