looking forward

Do you have things that you look forward to? My birthday is coming up next month, and I always look forward to that. Every December, as Christmas draws near, I look forward to the holiday celebrations.  One of the big things I look forward to every single day is seeing friends and neighbors, chatting with strangers, seeing smiles and acts of kindness. I will never tire of seeing people do nice things for each other.  I'm always looking forward to something!

obituaries

Yesterday I wrote about Tony Dow here.  I don't usually write obituaries, but I kept hearing a word over and over when describing Tony.  The word is kind.  How wonderful when the first thing people think about you is your kindness.  He will be remembered of course for his acting, producing, directing, and as a sculptor, but I am so very glad he will also be remembered for his kindness.

Tony Dow

After a premature announcement earlier in the week, actor Tony Dow passed away yesterday.  I'm writing about him here, because of his kindness.  His daughter-in-law, Melissa said "Tony was such a kind man. He had such a huge heart and I’ve never heard Tony say a bad or negative thing about anyone." I have heard so many comments like this.  A fan said, "It is rare when there is a person who is so universally loved like Tony."  Leave it to Beaver star Jerry Mathers said "He was not only my brother on TV but in many ways in life as well.  Tony leaves an empty place in my heart that won’t be filled.  He was always the kindest, most generous, gentle, loving, sincere and humble man, that it was my honor and privilege to be able to share memories together with for 65 years."  Thank you, Tony.  Rest in peace. 

Kindest day of July

What is the kindest day of the month of July?  How about today?  Yes, we can make July 2th the kindest day (until tomorrow comes along).  Then, we can share even more kindness, and more, and more, and more.  We can make this happen. Start spreading that kindness!

on the bus

It was 105° outside yesterday. I was more than a block away from the bus stop, but the bus driver stopped beside me and called out "Going home? Get in." The driver's kindness didn't stop there. There is a bus stop just past my apartment building, but instead she drove into the driveway and let me out at my front door!  Kind indeed.

Arnel

I'm sure you have all heard of the fantastic singer Arnel Pineda.  I've mentioned him before in both of my blogs.  His talent as a singer and songwriter is obvious, but in addition to that, it is his kindness that inspires me the most.  If all the world was like Arnel, what a better world this would be! 

Suicide Prevention Lifeline is changing

Some important news:  The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is going to be 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.  On July 16, 988 will be a universal entry point so that no matter where you live in the US, you can easily access emotional support at any time. In the meantime, please continue to share 1-800-273-TALK (8255) to be connected with a trained, caring counselor. Please make a note of this.  They are always there for you.

so much bad news

Lately there has been so much bad news? Why? Well, there isn't a simple answer, but a lot of it comes down to mental health issues and also people not caring about each other. What are we going to do about it? We can begin with how we act. Let's all try to be extra kind. Now that does not mean we should let people walk all over us. We need to stand up and demand change, positive change. We can make this a better world, but we have to do something. Let's go!

stop the shooting

There were so many shootings again yesterday, on a day when we should have been coming together in a positive way.  Numerous deaths and even more injuries.  (As I write this, the official numbers some places are not yet known).  This makes me very sad.  Can we bring back love and kindness and stop the shooting?  PLEASE!

Happy Fourth!

Remembering the words of General George Patton: “Better to fight for something than live for nothing.”  May we all stand up for what we believe in.  Happy Fourth everyone.  Make a difference.  Be kind.

Happy Canada Day!

To all our Canadian friends, warm wishes for a happy Canada Day!  Do something special to celebrate, and keep on spreading the kindness!